The Premise: You can use sleight of Mouth patterns shape any belief or occurrence including Romance!

Understand and plug-in the Sleight of Mouth Patterns (SOM), EBCBIP (Logical Levels) because those keep you electric in thought and centered emotionally because they’re like ji jitsu with language! In fact, you can become more expansive to experience enlightened levels of emotions with Sleight of Mouth and Logical Levels patterns.

Romance is a tricky subject. It is, in many instances, the purpose of poetry. Shakespeare wrote copiously about it, but how can you use Sleight of Mouth patterns with Romance?

Think of Intention and Consequence as the <—, —> before and after.

Think of Chunk up / Chunk Down like the Up and Down Arrows, so along with Intention/Consequence you have 360 degrees of using language to “zoom” around a concept.

Chunk Up

Neil Strauss writes “Attraction is not an option.” Aren’t you a your partner really just like magnets attracting together chemically?

Hierarchy of Criteria

H Humor - common interests and people who laugh at your jokes are good “matches”. Shared sense of humor helps you differentiate from poor matches.

O Openness - Open body language. Avoid crossing your body and square your shoulders to the person when you want to flirt. A rule from basketball I remember was square your shoulders to the basket. To practice good body language, at the very least, face your partner.

T Touch - Touch has a positive physiological reaction on the body. Shoulders are considered more friendly, but as you progress towards the hand, the sensation of touch becomes more intimate. The back of the shoulders is also a good flirtacious touch. Touch is a great way to escape the “friend zone” and send signals that you’re flirting.

A Attention - You’re participating and in the interaction, but not so self-conscious that you can’t observe the other person’s reactions like an anthropologist. If you see a blush or some other reactions, you can use that as proper feedback. Attention is a valuable tool not just to flirt, but to observe the baseline of a person, which can be used for anchors and all kinds of fun NLP patterns.

P Proximity - If you notice a greater proximity to a person and then suddenly a few minutes later, they’re in close proximity to you, this is an indicator that they, at the very least, are interested in you.

E - Eye Contact - Eye contact is clutch.

If someone displays all of those six actions, they ARE flirting with you. You can use those six forms of interaction to initiate flirting with a desired mate, too!

So by using Another example of Sleight of Mouth patterns, and just looking at an interaction with a woman as simply light flirting, instead of something as extreme as finding your soul mate, you can achieve a good balance with how flexible you are socially.

So conclusively, applying the sleight of mouth patterns to romance can enable you to succeed in the relationships of life!