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  • #97: Should you stay or should you go?

    SHOULD YOU STAY OR SHOULD YOU GO?

    If you’re in a tough spot in your relationship and wondering if you should stay and battle on or if you should throw in the towel and move on, today’s podcast episode is for you.  Thereare several things to take into consideration before making such a big decision so, check out the episode for some tips.


    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Check out my e-books on how to enjoy your first year of marriage, how to be happy while single, how to live happily as an introvert woman and more ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


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    #relationshippodcast #relationships #consent #stayorgo #dating #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching

    6 min
  • #96: How to make consent sexy and cool

    HOW TO MAKE CONSENT SEXY AND COOL

    Sex is more fun when all involved are willing participants.  Even if the sex involves role-playing or fantasy-ideations like reluctance or restraint, it can only be fully-enjoyed if everyone involved has agreed to participate in the act or acts to follow. Sex never has to be about manipulation or force.  Fun, exciting sex can still be achieved when you get consent from the other person.  Consent can be cool and sexy.  Today, I’m going to be giving ideas that hopefully show that that is the case.


    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.


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    #relationshippodcast #relationships #consent #sexualconsent #dating #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching

    7 min
  • #95: How to find the right person

    If you’ve been searching high and low, online and in reallife for the right person for you but haven’t had much success then you’re in luck because in this episode of my podcast, I share my top tips on how to find the right romantic partner for you.


    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.


    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.


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    #relationshippodcast #relationships #spotifypodcast #spotify #dating #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching


    5 min
  • #94: Coping with Christmas alone

    Christmas may be the season to be jolly but if you’re single then, you can feel anything but.  If being in a relationship is priority number one for you and you’re single at Christmas, the season can be tough.  But! I’m here to make things easier for you.  In this episode of my podcast, I share tips on how to cope with Christmas if you’re single and don’t want to be. Enjoy!


    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.


    Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.


    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.


    // WHAT TO DO NEXT

    ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.

    ▸ Check out my blog ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.


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    #relationshippodcast #relationships #spotifypodcast #spotify #christmas #christmas2025 #holidays #theholidays


    6 min
  • #93: What it means when he says, "You're too good for me."

    This is what it means when he says, "You're too good for me."

    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.


    Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.


    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠here⁠.


    // WHAT TO DO NEXT

    ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel ⁠here⁠.

    ▸ Check out my blog ⁠here⁠.


    // CONNECT WITH ME ON

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    #relationshippodcast #relationships #spotifypodcast #spotify



    5 min
  • #92: How to find love as an introvert woman

    HOW TO FIND LOVE AS AN INTROVERT WOMAN


    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠here⁠.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠here⁠.


    Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠here⁠.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠here⁠.


    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram here.


    // WHAT TO DO NEXT

    ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel here.

    ▸ Check out my blog here.


    // CONNECT WITH ME ON

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    #relationshippodcast #spotifypodcast #spotify


    6 min
  • What to know about The Lape Soetan Audio Show

    WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT THE LAPE SOETAN AUDIO SHOW


    Get details on my various coaching options and their prices here.


    I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out here.


    Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more here.


    Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms here.


    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    // WHAT TO DO NEXT▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Check out my blog | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bit.ly/lapesoetan

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    #spotifypodcasttrailer #podcasttrailer #spotify

    2 min
  • What to know about The Lape Soetan Audio Show

    WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT THE LAPE SOETAN AUDIO SHOW

    Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Check out my various coaching options and their prices⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Book a coaching session with me here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bitly.com/lapelovecoach⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    // WHAT TO DO NEXT▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Check out my blog | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lapesoetan.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Get my free e-books | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/lapeslovetips⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    2 min
  • #91: The most unusual red flags in men

    THE MOST UNUSUAL RED FLAGS IN MEN

    Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Check out my various coaching options and their prices⁠⁠here⁠⁠.Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Book a coaching session with me here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bitly.com/lapelovecoach⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    // WHAT TO DO NEXT▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Check out my blog | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lapesoetan.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Get my free e-books | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/lapeslovetips⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    #redflags

    5 min
  • #90: What to do when you’re bored with your sex life

    WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU'RE BORED WITH YOUR SEX LIFE

    Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Check out my various coaching options and their prices⁠here⁠.Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Book a coaching session with me here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bitly.com/lapelovecoach⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    // WHAT TO DO NEXT▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel | ⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Check out my blog | ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lapesoetan.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ Get my free e-books | ⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/lapeslovetips⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lapesoetan.com⁠⁠


    8 min

About The Lape Soetan Audio Show

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This is The Lape Soetan Audio Show, the podcast that helps men and women over the age of 30 navigate the world of relationships. If you’re looking to add more love to your life, start by adding this…