Confusion in marriage can happen when attractions strikes can come from misplacing what it is and why you are exposed to it. A bigger mistake is assuming this never happens to your partner.

A great question, tonight we look at how to find the answer.

The often missed part of all successful relationships whether business, friendship or romantic is trust. Many things can happen but there is a line in the sand where trust is concerned and once broken, feelings never really go back to what they were before. The greater the breach of trust, the greater the divide.

Dishonesty and planning bad behaviours is humiliating for partners. This and not intimacy is often what leads to trust issues in life.

Learning about another person's character, their weakness or their willingness to damage you is valuable information. You wouldn't trust a person to stand behind you with a knife if you knew they were the type to stab you in the back.

How does past betrayal or infidelity affect how you see future relationships? Is it reasonable caution or unreasonable fear? Are you equipped to have a trusting relationship with another person?

Catastrophizing is a common thing to do as is playing the victim. It will lead to painful and toxic relationships, learn to recognize it early and save yourself time. If you are the one doing it, have a listen and find ways to create relationships that inspire trust.

Victim statements are pretty common when starting relationships or even in one's thought processes when thinking about the. Is it really your job to deal with someone elses issues? Is it their life purpose to deal with yours?

Today Dorothy discusses fear of rejection and becoming overinvested in non existent relationships.

messaging and texting, emailing and online calling all leave you without the tools to determine a persons character and even whether you are safe. It is up to the other person to prove they are trustworthy over time it isn't up to you to trust a stranger