The Law of Compulsive Behavior - The Laws of Human Nature

How to Determine the Strength of People's Character

"When choosing people to work and associate with, do not be mesmerized by their reputation or taken in by the surface image they try to project. Instead, train yourself to look deep within them and see their character. People's character is formed in their earliest years and by their daily habits. It is what compels them to repeat certain actions in their lives and fall into negative patterns. Look closely at such patterns and remember that people never do something just once. They will inevitably repeat their behavior. Guage the relative strength of their character by how well they handle adversity, their ability to adapt and work with other people, their patience, and ability to learn. Always gravitate toward those who display signs of strength, and avoid the many toxic types out there. Know thoroughly your own character so you can break your compulsive patterns and take control of your destiny."

What Bryant to Coach You? - The Good Life Playbook (learn.bryantchambers.com)

Want to change your life in 30 Days? - 30 Day Change Your Life Challenge (30days.bryantchambers.com)

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     - How to Avoid Toxic People? (Never engage with them in the first place)
     - How can you gravitate toward people who show signs of strength? (recognizing your own strength)

READ - Page 110 Highlights
     - Why are we captivated by appearances? (Snap judgments and Heuristics)
     - The world is Instagram. How do we see through the facade to the real? (By looking first within ourselves HONESTLY)

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     - This is why the Bible needed Christ. Humans are so bent on repeating ineffective strategies when we don't have something better that it takes an outside person with a different perspective to help us

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     - Take a look at the areas in your personal and professional life that are not going your way. I bet you can tie that circumstance back in some way to the people you keep company with (Tell story of Mother-in-Law)

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     - Read about 3rd & 4th layers and freestyle

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     - Become masters of the read (This is how Toxic people never make it into my life. I know the symptoms and avoid them)

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     - Freestyle. Standalone Point

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     - Weak character means they also probably lack critical thinking skills

     - Start talk on Toxic types (The Hyperperfectionist)

READ - Page 122 Highlights

     - The Relentless Rebel

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     - The Personalizer (Narcissism - Woke Brigade)

     - The Drama Magnet (I dated one of these back in the day

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     - The Big Talker 

     - The Sexualizer

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     - The Pampered Prince/Princess

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     - The Savior
     - The Easy Moralizer

READ - Pages 127, 128, 130
     - Freestyle

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