Reality is an interpretation. If you choose to interpret in good ways, you will experience many opportunities to evolve, to grow. 

When you blame others, you create negative energy, you put yourself in a victim mentality - whenever we think negatively, it consumes a lot of our energy. 

Train your mind to focus on the potential of what is good in each event that happens in your life. Trust and have faith that things will work out for your own good in the end even if you don’t see it now. There is hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution