This month's quick tip for the Academy is about a Situationship. 

A Situationship basically means that you want something that a man is not giving you, that you settle for less, and that you're going to put up with whatever he puts out (and still be there).

=> 8 Steps out of a Situationship

 Today's quick attraction tip for the Academy is a follow up from last month. I mentioned showing interest instead of making the first move, and someone asked me to break that down. What is showing interest look like instead of making the first move? 

Show a genuine interest - nice and light, nothing heavy. 

Clear the runway, and let him know it's okay to approach you.  This makes it a little bit easier for a man who's interested in you.

=> Being Approachable video

 Welcome to my new quick attraction tips podcast for the ACADEMY where I answer client questions. 

Here's this month's question: "Is it okay to make the first move?" 

I coach women not to make the first move, but, instead, to show interest and be approachable. But if my approach is not your cup of tea, then this podcase provides an alternative for you:

1. Be prepared to continuously pursue him throughout the dating or the relationship. 

2. Be prepared for his possibly becoming distant, withdrawn then eventually stepping off or ghosting you.

These are all possibilities - not an absolutes, but definitely possibilities. 

=> She made the first move article

An emergency coaching broadcast to "Sheltered" (conclusion).

An emergency coaching broadcast to "Sheltered" (continued).

An emergency coaching broadcast to "Sheltered" (continued).

An emergency coaching broadcast to "Sheltered"


And, when you're ready . . . The Feminine Break Up Kit

Love Words - What to Say To Him (an Academy Podcast Series)
PART NINE

0:00    Intro
1:05     Remember your emotions
2:47     How to communicate this
3:25     Keep his attention
3:57     Design beautiful words you use with him
4:17     You in his world . . .
6:16     Shift your focus back to you (but have your love words ready)
8:02     Leaning Back Practice
9:22     Infusing your feelings & being feminine
12:05   The mood you're setting
12:45    Silence & space to yourself
17:25    Beware of control issues
18:05    Presence
19:08    A new ritual
20:20    Your texting style, etc.
26:40    Timing
27:30     Avoid Leaning Forward & Getting beneath your emotions
29:33     Wrap up


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Love Words - Poetry Words (an Academy Podcast Series)
PART EIGHT




Poetry Words (Butterfly Exercise)


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