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The Lies that Social Media Tells Us
Episode Summary
In this episode, we unpack several of the most common lies that modern social media—and the broader culture—feeds Christians today. Because we are all “creatures of culture,” ideas around boundaries, self-care, hustle culture, the “slow life,” and all-or-nothing thinking often slip into our minds without scrutiny.
Together we explore why these ideas resonate, what partial truths make them appealing, and—more importantly—how Scripture calls us to discernment, wisdom, hospitality, fruitful labor, sacrificial love, and a God-centered view of rest and identity.
This is a practical, honest conversation about learning to sift truth from error so our lives are shaped more by Christ than by the algorithm.
Key Themes & Keywords
Christian discipleship, Social media influence, Cultural discernment, Saying “no” wisely, Boundaries vs. selfishness, Self-care culture, Hustle culture & masculinity, Quiet life vs. productive life, Hospitality & fruitful labor, Biblical rest & Sabbath, Overstimulation & digital consumption, All-or-nothing thinking, Wisdom and vocation, Parenting, marriage, Christian home life, Contentment & calling
Chapters
00:00 – Intro: Why We’re Talking About Cultural Lies
Setting the stage: how culture subtly shapes our habits, expectations, and values.
03:10 – Lie #1: “Learning to Say No” / The Self-Care Obsession
The partial truth of boundaries, but the danger of self-protection, flakiness, and refusing to be inconvenienced in love.
10:45 – A Biblical Vision of Time, Calling, and Stewardship
Numbering our days, embracing God-given limits, and avoiding overload we create for ourselves.
17:20 – Hospitality, Hard Work & Fruitful Labor
Why Scripture presents a life of generosity, availability, and action—not self-preservation—as the norm for believers.
23:00 – Lie #2: The “Slow Life” Aesthetic
The Pinterest-perfect home, cottage-core mothering, and the myth of serene domesticity.
28:15 – Quiet Moments vs. Quiet Lifestyle
Why moms feel discouraged, and what real spiritual quiet looks like (prayer, Scripture, contemplation).
33:40 – Lie #3: Crunchy/Off-Grid/Organic = Godliness
How natural living can subtly become a point of pride or self-righteousness.
38:55 – Lie #4: Hustle Culture & Hyper-Masculinity
Why men today feel crushed under unrealistic expectations—and what biblical manhood really looks like.
46:30 – Faithful Ordinary Men
Redefining success: showing up, loving your family, fighting sin, and embracing your actual calling.
51:50 – Lie #5: All-or-Nothing Thinking
Oversimplifying complex issues, choosing sides, and demonizing other Christians in a polarized age.
58:00 – Disagreement, Discernment & Christian Unity
Learning to engage critically without shutting people out.
01:02:00 – Closing Encouragement
A call to wisdom: look to Christ, not culture, for identity, rest, and direction.
Hashtags
#UnderOneRoofPodcast #ChristianHome #ChristianDiscipleship #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianCulture #CounterculturalLiving #ChristianParents #FaithAndCulture #SocialMediaLies #BiblicalManhood #BiblicalWomanhood #ChristCenteredLiving #GospelLife #RestInChrist #ChristianPodcast
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By Andrey and Liya BulanovEpisode Summary
In this episode, we unpack several of the most common lies that modern social media—and the broader culture—feeds Christians today. Because we are all “creatures of culture,” ideas around boundaries, self-care, hustle culture, the “slow life,” and all-or-nothing thinking often slip into our minds without scrutiny.
Together we explore why these ideas resonate, what partial truths make them appealing, and—more importantly—how Scripture calls us to discernment, wisdom, hospitality, fruitful labor, sacrificial love, and a God-centered view of rest and identity.
This is a practical, honest conversation about learning to sift truth from error so our lives are shaped more by Christ than by the algorithm.
Key Themes & Keywords
Christian discipleship, Social media influence, Cultural discernment, Saying “no” wisely, Boundaries vs. selfishness, Self-care culture, Hustle culture & masculinity, Quiet life vs. productive life, Hospitality & fruitful labor, Biblical rest & Sabbath, Overstimulation & digital consumption, All-or-nothing thinking, Wisdom and vocation, Parenting, marriage, Christian home life, Contentment & calling
Chapters
00:00 – Intro: Why We’re Talking About Cultural Lies
Setting the stage: how culture subtly shapes our habits, expectations, and values.
03:10 – Lie #1: “Learning to Say No” / The Self-Care Obsession
The partial truth of boundaries, but the danger of self-protection, flakiness, and refusing to be inconvenienced in love.
10:45 – A Biblical Vision of Time, Calling, and Stewardship
Numbering our days, embracing God-given limits, and avoiding overload we create for ourselves.
17:20 – Hospitality, Hard Work & Fruitful Labor
Why Scripture presents a life of generosity, availability, and action—not self-preservation—as the norm for believers.
23:00 – Lie #2: The “Slow Life” Aesthetic
The Pinterest-perfect home, cottage-core mothering, and the myth of serene domesticity.
28:15 – Quiet Moments vs. Quiet Lifestyle
Why moms feel discouraged, and what real spiritual quiet looks like (prayer, Scripture, contemplation).
33:40 – Lie #3: Crunchy/Off-Grid/Organic = Godliness
How natural living can subtly become a point of pride or self-righteousness.
38:55 – Lie #4: Hustle Culture & Hyper-Masculinity
Why men today feel crushed under unrealistic expectations—and what biblical manhood really looks like.
46:30 – Faithful Ordinary Men
Redefining success: showing up, loving your family, fighting sin, and embracing your actual calling.
51:50 – Lie #5: All-or-Nothing Thinking
Oversimplifying complex issues, choosing sides, and demonizing other Christians in a polarized age.
58:00 – Disagreement, Discernment & Christian Unity
Learning to engage critically without shutting people out.
01:02:00 – Closing Encouragement
A call to wisdom: look to Christ, not culture, for identity, rest, and direction.
Hashtags
#UnderOneRoofPodcast #ChristianHome #ChristianDiscipleship #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianCulture #CounterculturalLiving #ChristianParents #FaithAndCulture #SocialMediaLies #BiblicalManhood #BiblicalWomanhood #ChristCenteredLiving #GospelLife #RestInChrist #ChristianPodcast