My Life Is Not My Life

The Looks of Self-Sabotage


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The Mountain Is You: Transforming self-sabotage into self-mastery.

By: Brianna Wiest

Episode 76: The Looks of Self-sabotage

What'd Up Crew? What's good?

Who Gon' Check Me Boo?! God is!

Psalm 11:7

"For the Lord is righteous, He loves justice; the upright will see His face."

Doing right is not just for you. It is doing right because we serve and represent God, so Jesus can examine you just as the scripture says in Psalm 11:4-5

11:4 …He observes everyone on earth

11:5 …The Lord examines the righteous

Chapter 2: There's No Such Thing As Self-Sabotage

  • Pg.28 "Self-sabotage is not a way we hurt ourselves; it's a way we try to protect ourselves."
  • What does self-sabotage look like? Pg. 31

Resistance – Hitting Your Upper Limit – Uprooting – Perfectionism – Limited Emotional Processing Skills – Justification – Disorganization- Attachment to what you don't really want – Judging Others – Pride - Guilt of Succeeding – Fear of Failing – Downplaying – Unhealthy Habits – Being "Busy" - Spending time with the wrong people – Worrying about irrational fears and least likely circumstances –

Chapter 3: Your Triggers are the Guides to your freedom

  • PG. 72 How to interpret negative emotions

Anger pg. 73 Resentment pg.77 Chronic fear pg.79

The challenge of the week

Get Clear

When we override an issue inside of facing it head-on; we sabotage ourselves even more. Pg. 66-67

What Would Crew Do?! (ask for advice)

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Do you believe it is appropriate to split bills with your spouse 50/50?

Quote of the week:

Chapter 3 pg. 95

"You begin experiencing feelings of peace and hoy in your life when you condition yourself to take repeated daily actions that facilitate clarity, calmness, healthfulness, and purposefulness, not the other way around."

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