Love By Design

The Love Alchemists (3/5 + 3/6)


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"The Women Who Turn Heartbreak Into Wisdom"

Some women avoid mistakes. Others are designed to make them—and turn them into mastery.

In this episode, Joan explores the two "experimenter" archetypes—the 3/5 and 3/6—and why your so-called "failed" relationships weren't failures at all. These are the women who learn love through living it, who transform every heartbreak into wisdom, and who become the guides others turn to.

If you've ever felt like you're "bad at relationships" because you've had more than one, this episode will show you why your past isn't proof you're broken—it's proof you're becoming.


Key Concepts:

  • Line 3: The Experimenter - learns through trial and error
  • 3/5: The Phoenix Dater - experiments and leads through solutions
  • 3/6: The Love Alchemist - experiments and models evolved love (Joan's profile!)
  • The three phases of the 3/6 journey
  • Turning trials into teachings vs. modeling wisdom
  • Your past as curriculum, not failure

Reflection Questions:

  1. Do I lead through solutions (3/5) or model through presence (3/6)?
  2. Where am I trying to rescue instead of guide?
  3. What if my "failed" relationships were actually my greatest teachers?
  4. Am I ashamed of my past or alchemizing it into wisdom?


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Love By DesignBy Joan Nwosu