We don’t love others like we know that Jesus would like for us to. We say things we wish we haven’t said. Rather than having a long fuse we find ourselves with a short fuse and with certain people, that fuse is becoming shorter and shorter. By discovering the heart of the issue we will find that we may not have to try so hard. In fact, maybe we won’t have to try at all as it will become a part of our character, our nature.