What is something your spouse would really, really love?

-It's hard to stay angry long with someone for whom you're praying.

-Sequoia: unlike many trees, they reach out and interlock their roots with the Sequoias around them.

-make a commitment to daily let go of unrealistic expectations and become your spouse's greatest encourager.

Dreams: Imagineer at Disney World. In the World Book.

Humility: Randy's dad's Bronze Star for valor. 50 years and no mention of it.

Does a car matter? Arguing about a double charge?

Brick walls & Tenacity. His wife and Brown University.