The Love Lady Podcast

Most of us go looking for the meaning of life from a low place, disconnected, sad, afraid, or aching, and there is no shame in that. The Love Lady, Juli Martin, brings her guides' answer, and it is simpler and larger than she expected: the meaning of life is to enjoy it all. Not only the good parts. All of it. Because you are both a single human being and a part of the great mystery, the one source and love-light that everything is made of, and you came here for the whole experience. Pain and grief and sorrow are not mistakes in the music; they are some of the notes that make it music. So she offers a way through the hard ones: let curiosity about what is happening inside you soften the grip of the pain, remember that everything passes, and instead of marinating in the story of a feeling, find where it actually lives in your body and see if you can help it move. She is careful to say she is not a therapist, and that real, stuck, long-term pain deserves real help, a good somatic therapist among them. And she comes back, again and again, to the invitation underneath it all: put down the screens, return to your body and to real people, offer your quiet presence to someone else who is hurting, and let yourself relax back into the simple, astonishing enjoyment of being alive. This moment will pass, and joy is closer than it looks.

You already know what you want. You want a great many things, and when we want everything, we end up committing to nothing and telling ourselves we are too busy. Underneath the long list, one dream is soul-deep right now. It is the one that keeps finding you in the shower, on a walk, or on the drive home, and it keeps returning because it is part of why you are here.

The dream doesn’t need more faith. It needs a plan, and the plan begins with pulling that one dream out of the pile of borrowed ones. I share the honest questions that do it and answer each one for myself, from the lavish lifestyle I thought I should want after years of selling luxury real estate to the traveler I truly am, and from the peace I would keep by staying private to the fears that rushed up the moment I set out to become a published author. Then I talk about believing yourself once you find that dream, and saying no to the scrolling, the borrowed wants, and the outside voices that drown it out.

These are the Honesty and Rejection steps of the HEART Method in the upcoming book, How the Dream Comes True: A Psychic’s Guide to Getting What You’ve Always Wanted, which publishes this November.

A private session is here whenever you are ready to hear which dream your angels and guides are calling forward, and The Love Lady classes offer a place to build the plan and follow it through.

I would love to hear in the comments what your dream is, whether you are writing a book, creating a piece of art, looking for love, or searching for a new career.

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A woman came to this reading wanting to reach her father, who had passed. The Love Lady, Juli Martin, found him, and to be sure it was really him, they checked the symbols he sends, a rabbit, dandelions, small and specific and unmistakably his, because the ones who have crossed over speak to us in feeling and symbol more than in words. What he had to say was mostly love. He is proud of her. He called her an earth angel, the one who holds the family together, the one who knows how to love and keep people close. He is at peace, free of the pain he carried, and he has not gone anywhere; he is still with her, still involved, always available from the other side. And he had encouragement for a hard season, because she has been standing at the edge of a chasm, worn down by a run of losses, and he wanted her to know she can make the leap. Juli speaks too about the quiet steadying power of a companion animal, and about a complicated mother, and how seeing a difficult parent clearly, with compassion for their fear, can finally let you set the weight down and come home to yourself. It is a reading about the love that does not end, and the way the ones we lose keep speaking to us still.

In this intimate reading, the Love Lady, Juli Martin, sits with a client named Ingrid, who arrives carrying a self-doubt she'd like to soften and a wish to trust herself and flow more freely. As they settle in, a tender pattern surfaces: Ingrid often wakes in the early morning gripped by fear, even a kind of terror, and a sense that something is missing that quietly dissolves as the day goes on. What her guides offer is both reassuring and freeing. This is a passing season of healing, they say, and much of that heaviness isn't even hers to carry. Because she is deeply empathic, she has been absorbing the anxieties and energies of the people, the collective, and even the spaces around her. The invitation, then, is twofold. First, to gently return other people's energy and keep her own, understanding that staying merged and drained doesn't actually help anyone. And second, for immediate relief, to step outside the moment she wakes, put her bare feet on the earth, look up at the sky, move a little, and let the planet recycle the fear that was never hers to hold. The reading also touches the tender territory of the heart, where letting go lovingly makes room for the right connection, and it closes with a warm reminder that Ingrid already knows how to do this deep work. It is a grounding, practical conversation for anyone who wakes up anxious and has never once considered that the feeling might not belong to them at all.

After decades of bad dates and relationships that didn't work, the Love Lady, Juli Martin, found the few things that changed everything, and within six weeks of doing them she met her husband. In this short teaching she hands those things over. Know your worth, and make a list of what you bring, not only what you want. Start today, with one small action, instead of waiting to feel ready. Remember you are not hunting for a single needle in the world, but choosing among the many people who could be a wonderful match, and let the soul-tribe sense of instant recognition point you without letting it override your real criteria. Cast the widest net you can, meeting more and more different people with genuine curiosity. And filter early and honestly, because there are no prizes for more dates, and freeing someone who isn't your match is a kindness to you both. It is practical and warm, and gentle with the sensitive souls for whom putting yourself out there is genuinely hard.

The Love Lady, Juli Martin, brings a teaching on the ache of loneliness, the kind that comes from a breakup, an ending, a move, or one of the hundred quiet transitions that leave us feeling unseen. Loneliness is different from solitude, she reminds us, and it returns in cycles as we grow and outgrow, and it always passes. Three guides come through to help soothe it: Hina, the moon goddess, who says look up, let the size of the sky loosen the tailspin, and put your light into the world so your soul tribe can find you; Melchizedek, with the law of attraction and the practice of feeling loved and connected now, before the people arrive; and Lady Nada, who reminds you of all the roles you get to play for one another, and that this solitude is the soil where the next chapter is already taking root. Underneath it all is one steady truth: you are never truly alone.

The Love Lady, Juli Martin, takes on one of the oldest questions there is: how do you actually know it's love? Not the mind's kind of knowing, she says, the checklist and the reasoning, but the older, deeper knowing that lives in the body and the soul. She walks through three of the ways love makes itself known — the felt, visceral sense of it that words never quite catch, the quiet recognition of meeting one of your soul tribe, that unmistakable "oh, there you are," and the practice of asking your own heart directly and letting it answer over the noise of the mind. Love, she reminds us, is a paradox we never fully solve, and that is part of its beauty. It is the great dance we are all in together, felt long before it is understood.

In this episode, Juli Martin — The Love Lady — offers an honesty check for the middle of the overwhelm. When the pace of life has you bombarded by the work, the relationships, your health, the culture, and every cause and community you care about, the move is not to push harder. It is to pause, even for a few minutes, and tell yourself the truth about where your time and attention have actually been going. Juli guides you through a gentle honesty exercise, a compressed version of the year in review she does with her husband, looking back at the past week to notice what genuinely brought you peace and joy, and what landed instead as dissonance, that quiet flinch that is your honesty flag waving at the news, the scrolling, or even the party your soul was never really called to. She reminds you that nobody is coming to rescue you, that it is your job to rescue yourself, and that you probably do not need rescuing at all, only a small honest pivot in where you point your attention, which is often toward rest, quiet, nature, less, and more time with the few people whose company becomes a kind of music. She shares her favorite way in, seeing yourself through the eyes of the person who loves you most, and asking what they would lovingly invite you to change. And she closes with an invitation to daydream your way back to joy, to journal and wonder and have a two-way conversation with the love light, remembering that you came here not only to work hard and struggle, but to enjoy your people, your body, and this spectacular world. A warm, honest, grounding conversation about pointing your life back toward its love center.

In this episode, the Love Lady, Juli Martin, draws the line between fate and destiny, and makes the case that far more of your life is yours to make than you were told. Fate, she explains, is the storyline society writes for you from the facts you were born with, the path the culture assumes you will walk. Destiny is the path of your soul, winding and uncertain and never quite finished, the one you co-create choice by choice with source, your guides, and the people who love you. She teaches it through the image of walking off-trail in a forest, and through her own hours lost in Pacific Northwest rainforest, feeling her way toward the ocean and finding, at the end, that she had walked an almost perfect straight line. She speaks to the hard part too, the way friends and jobs and old versions of your life fall away as you align with your soul's path, and why that falling away is not a sign something is wrong. And she comes back, again and again, to the one practice that steadies all of it: slowing down, returning to your body, and trusting that the way forward is already coming.

In this episode, Juli Martin — The Love Lady — brings through the guides on how to decide what to do when you are overwhelmed, when there is far too much on your plate, too many inspirations, and only one body with so few hours. Juli knows this terrain intimately, with her active mind and her long list of soul callings, and she offers a way through that is part planning and part surrender. She walks you through a monthly planning session where you write out everything that matters, from the practical obligations to the deep dreams you have carried for years, and then whittle it to the twenty-five that matter most. She shares a simple, powerful practice she learned from the astrologer Molly McCord: to make a small ritual of music and smudge, call in your spirit guides, and ask them to rate each item from one to a hundred by how aligned it is with your soul's purpose right now, keeping only the ones that score ninety or above. Then comes the firm and freeing instruction from the guides, to schedule only one of those priorities each day, because priority was always meant to be singular, and you can only ever do one thing at a time. She speaks honestly about resistance, the way a hundred small urgent-feeling tasks rise up to keep you from the one thing your soul is calling you toward, and how giving that one thing even fifteen protected minutes builds the momentum that eventually finishes the dream. And she closes with a grounding practice to steady you before you begin. A warm, practical, deeply human conversation about doing less, and finishing what matters most.