After the consensual engagements between the sheets of beds, couches, and Tulum BnBs, Life inevitably throws a situational curveball that physical intimacy brings--questions of commitment and if the sexual partner could be "The One". As tension mounts one ponders, "Where will this go?" "Outside of sex, how much do I care about this person?" "Do I like them? Even worse, am I fond of them enough to envision a future with them?!"

In other cases, some do not encounter these questions because they have been hurt and are healing, witnessed how love can hurt and remain hesitant or noncommittal, and/or did not cross the sexual threshold at all. Overall, in many respects, people do not practice nor comprehend what genuine love and intimacy can be for them due to their intricate, personal experiences. Thus, episode four addresses and unpacks these common themes. From first love testimonies to lessons learned from heartbreak, the gentlemen of HOTT unveil what love, and those experiential moments, have taught them.