This talk opened with me telling you about myself and my team's quest to be the last team standing and ultimately win a chicken dinner. We didnt win the chicken dinner but I left that game with a lot of information and more questions than I knew what to do with it . I realized that I had heard about stories like this but I wasnt as shocked as I would be if a female friend had told me. I realized I was belittling a sexual assault simply because of who it happened to. A lot of us might have consciously or unconsciously disregarded male sexual assult and breed a phantom. This talk like all my talks is in a bid to open conversation and educate us.