In Episode 14 of After the Quiet, I share what early marriage really looked like behind closed doors—and the “rules” I was expected to follow without ever agreeing to them. This episode explores coercive control in marriage, including sexual coercion, emotional manipulation, isolation from family, and constant monitoring of my time. I open up about the pressure to never say no, the shame and confusion that followed, and how my relationship with my mom became something he tried to control. From rushing home after work to avoiding friendships and even giving up reading for enjoyment, I began shrinking to keep the peace. If you’ve ever felt like your needs didn’t matter, your voice wasn’t safe, or your body wasn’t your own, this episode will resonate.