Marisa continues her conversation from the week before with Bride to be Shantel and wife of four years, Barbara Nkansah. Shantel shares her unconventional views on marriage (4:00) the importance of a friendship in a marriage (11:00) living together before marriage (13:00).  and lastly Shantel shares advice for women who share similar views as her. (19:00)..  Marisa moves on to speak with Barbara, where they discuss traditional wedding vs "western" wedding (27:00), bride price (34:00), the merging of two families (37:00), the pressures of planning a big wedding (43:44), lifestyle changes after marriage (51:00) and the importance of counselling in a marriage. (1:05:00)