🧠💔 Love is powerful—but what happens when it’s not enough to hold our relationships together?

In this raw and real episode of Melanin Reset, the Realist Winn along with her husband and the Jacksons dive deep into the unspoken struggles of mental health in Black relationships. From emotional triggers and trauma bonds to the hard truths we often avoid, this conversation isn’t just necessary—it’s long overdue.

We’re breaking the silence, unpacking the stigma, and exploring what it really takes to love ourselves and our partners through the messy middle—because healing isn’t always pretty, but it’s always worth it.

🎙️ Topics we get into:
• What untreated mental health looks like in relationships
• How generational trauma affects our ability to love and be loved
• Recognizing the difference between love and codependency
• Why therapy ain’t just for white folks
• Tools to start healing, together or apart

✨ If you’ve ever felt like you’re loving someone through their pain—or losing yourself in the process—this episode is for you.

🛑 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a comment with your own thoughts or stories. Let’s get real, fam.

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🌟 Welcome, Beautiful Souls! 🌟

I’m Valarie “The Realist” Winn—host of The Melanin Reset 🎙️—a bold, unfiltered space where we reclaim our narratives, challenge limiting beliefs, and speak truth to power with no chaser 💥.

This quick intro is just for you—all my new followers tapping in for the first time 👋🏽✨. I see you. I appreciate you. And I can’t wait to grow, heal, and RESET with you 💫.

This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a whole vibe. A sacred space to unlearn what no longer serves us, speak boldly, and vibrate higher together 🙌🏾. Expect real talk, deep dives into Black identity, and unapologetic conversations that center us—our brilliance, our humanity, and our POWER 🔥.

We keep it real. We laugh loud. We get uncomfortable when necessary. And we always lead with love ❤️.

Whether you’re here to heal, elevate, or just vibe with someone who gets it—you’re in the right place 🖤.

🔔 Hit that subscribe button, turn on those notifications, and let’s level up—together.

🎧 New episodes dropping regularly

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Tap in. Stay grounded. Stay real.

And welcome to The Melanin Reset. 💫

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🎙️“Can a Marriage Survive Infidelity? (Part 2) – The Hard Truths About Love, Betrayal & Healing”

We’re back with Part 2 of “Can a Marriage Survive Infidelity?”—because this conversation was too real to stop at just one episode. In this unfiltered discussion, we go even deeper into the complexities of love, trust, and betrayal.

💔 Can a relationship truly recover from infidelity?

💡 What does real accountability look like?

🛠️ How do healing and personal growth play a role in moving forward—whether together or apart?

From hard truths to real-life experiences, we’re breaking it all down. Whether you’ve been through it, know someone who has, or just want insight on maintaining a healthy relationship, this episode is a must-listen.

🔥 Show us some love! Like, share, and drop a comment to let us know your thoughts. Your support helps us keep creating real, impactful content!

🎧 Tune in now and let’s talk about it!

🔗 Listen here: https://linktr.ee/TheMelaninReset

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Why do some people love to throw shade but crumble when the heat is on them? In Episode 4 of Living, Loving, and Winning, we’re calling out the folks who can dish it but can’t take it! 💅🏾 From fragile egos to straight-up hypocrisy, we’re breaking it all the way down.

🔥 Topics Covered:
✔️ Why people love to critique but hate being critiqued
✔️ The psychology behind dishing it out but not handling the clapback
✔️ How to protect your peace from hypocrites
✔️ Real-life examples & unfiltered truth

If you’ve ever dealt with someone who loves to throw stones but hides when they get hit back, this episode is for you! 🎯 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE to keep the conversation going.

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We’re back with Part 2 of our deep dive into Communication & Understanding in marriage and relationships! 💬❤️

In this episode, we’re picking up where we left off—unpacking how to break down communication barriers and create deeper connections with your partner.

We’re sharing:

🔥 Practical tools to improve active listening

💡 How to clarify intentions vs. assumptions

❤️ The importance of grace and patience in hard conversations

🗣️ How therapy helped us bridge the gap between what was said and what was meant

Healthy communication is a journey—not a destination. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this episode will help you speak, hear, and understand each other better.

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The Melanin Reset presents Living, Loving, and Winning! This week, we’re diving into one of the biggest keys to a healthy relationship—Communication & Understanding. 💬✨

We’re getting real about how therapy helped both of our marriages and the powerful “aha” moments that turned miscommunication into clarity. Because let’s face it—love without understanding can’t thrive.

In this Part 1 episode, we’ll discuss:

🗣️ Why communication is more than just talking

💡 How therapy helped us unpack what we were really trying to say

👀 Stories of miscommunication turned into breakthrough moments

❤️ The power of active listening and emotional vulnerability

We’re keeping it 100% real—and next week, we’re coming back with Part 2 to dive even deeper into how understanding each other creates winning partnerships.

If you’ve ever felt like your partner just doesn’t get you—this one’s for you!

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Living, Loving, and Winning! This episode, we’re getting real about PDA (Public Displays of Affection) and Comfort Zones in relationships. How much is too much when it comes to showing love in public? 🫣

We’re discussing:
💋 Balancing affection and respect in public spaces
🛑 The importance of boundaries—every couple is different!
🏠 Why being discreet in public matters but at home—it’s your playground!
🖤 Honoring your partner’s comfort level while still keeping that spark alive

PDA can be sweet—but let’s be honest—nobody wants to see your whole love life on aisle 5 at Target! 😆
Let’s talk about loving out loud but with wisdom, so you’re winning in your relationship without making anyone uncomfortable.

How do YOU feel about PDA? Let us know in the comments! 👇🏽

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Living, loving, and winning—together! In this episode, we’re diving into the beauty of dating your spouse and keeping the romance alive with intentional love. Whether you’re newly married or celebrating decades together, nurturing your relationship takes effort, faith, and a whole lot of heart.

We’ll talk about how couples can prioritize each other while staying powered by God, building a love that withstands the ups and downs of life. From creative date night ideas to communication tips and practical ways to show love daily, this is your reminder to keep choosing each other—every single day.

Don’t just survive marriage—THRIVE in it. Let’s build marriages that reflect God’s love, intentional care, and endless joy.

If you’re ready to level up your relationship, hit that play button, subscribe, and let’s grow together!

Drop a comment below: What’s your favorite way to date your spouse?

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You wanted her unapologetic opinion and here it is! In the latest episode the Realist Winn's gives a bold recap of the 2024 Presidential Debate between Donald Trump and Kamala Harris. Let's get into it!! 

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In this episode of "The Melanin Reset," host Valarie Winn welcomes listeners to a new year filled with promise and challenges. She sets the stage by highlighting the critical importance of the upcoming election and the power of the Black vote in shaping the future of the country. Emphasizing the need for strategic voting and active participation in civic processes, Valarie encourages listeners to understand the broader implications of their choices—from local to national levels. As she navigates through the complexities of political systems and the judiciary's impact on civil rights, Valarie calls upon her audience to be informed, engaged, and proactive in safeguarding democracy. With her trademark blend of intellect, passion, and empowerment, Valarie sets the tone for a year of advocacy, awareness, and collective action within the African-American community and the global African Diaspora.

Join Valarie Winn on this compelling journey of enlightenment and empowerment, only on "The Melanin Reset."

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