Becoming Sound

The Messy Middle: Sitting in the Sh*t and Finding Growth


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In this episode of Becoming Sound, Krista pulls back the curtain on what healing really looks like when the awareness hits—but the action feels heavy. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the sh*t - self-sabotage, swimming in emotions with no clear path forward, this conversation is for you.

Krista explores the often-overlooked phase of emotional processing—the “messy middle” of healing—and why just knowing your patterns isn’t enough. She breaks down what it means to create emotional safety, how to reconnect with your inner child, and what small, soul-aligned steps can help you move through discomfort without bypassing it.

With raw honesty and compassionate guidance, Krista offers practical self-care strategies, coping tools, and mindset shifts to help you keep going—especially when the healing feels endless.

Whether you're knee-deep in therapy, on a personal growth journey, or just trying to feel more at peace, this episode will meet you where you are.


Key Takeaways:

  • Healing isn’t a straight line—it’s a loop, a spiral, and sometimes a full-on emotional maze.
  • Self-awareness is a powerful first step, but it won’t carry you without aligned action.
  • Emotional discomfort is a signal, not a failure—let it guide you deeper into your truth.
  • Creating safe internal spaces is essential for growth, especially when revisiting old wounds.
  • Inner child work can bring clarity, compassion, and surprising strength.
  • Small steps are still steps—start where you are.
  • The real goal? More joy. More truth. More you.


If this episode resonates with you and you're ready to move from surviving to thriving, I’ve got something for you. Visit kristazaft.com to download your free healing guide, packed with simple tools to support your emotional wellness, self-care, and personal growth journey.

And don’t forget to follow the podcast for more conversations about healing from dysfunction, reconnecting with your true self, and creating a life you love.

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Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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