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The Midnight Scroll - How to Stop Obsessive Stalking (Day 12) | UNSTUCK: Rewrite Your Love Story


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๐ŸŽง DAY 12: The Midnight Scroll - How to Stop Obsessive Stalking | UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story



๐Ÿ”ฅ EPISODE DESCRIPTION


You're curled up with tea, "I'm over it" mantra readyโ€”until your phone buzzes. He posted something.Suddenly, you're Sherlock Holmes decoding his Instagram likes, LinkedIn updates (yes, LinkedIn), and that suspicious burrito photo from six weeks ago.

Here's the truth: Stalking his social media won't heal your heart. It's just keeping you stuck in a trauma loop. In this no-BS episode of Unstuck: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story, host Christy Holt (Master-Midnight-Scroller-turned-Happiness-Hussy) reveals why we cyberstalk (hint: it's about control, not closure), and how to replace the scroll with self-love.

Spoiler: You won't find answers in his burrito likes. But you will find them within yourself.



โฑ๏ธ WATCH/LISTEN ALONG


0:00 โ€“ The Rabbit Hole (From Cozy Night to Cyberstalking Spiral)

0:45 โ€“ Control Illusion (Why True Crime Binges Turn You Into a Detective)

1:43 โ€“ Grieving the Fantasy (It's Not About Himโ€”It's About What Could've Been)

2:52 โ€“ Add to Your F*ck It List: "Stalking His Social Media to Fill the Void"

3:09 โ€“ Scroll Stopper Protocol (3 Steps to Break the Obsession)



๐Ÿ’ฌ KEY QUOTES (SHAREABLE AF)


"The midnight scroll isn't about him. It's about you grieving the fantasy of what could've been."

"You won't find closure in his burrito likes. But you will find it within yourself."

"Stalking his LinkedIn won't heal your heart. Deleting his number? Now that's queen behaviour."

"Your brain's not brokenโ€”it's just addicted to the control illusion. Time to rewire."
(Tag @CoachChristyHolt if you've ever cyberstalked a burrito enthusiast. ๐Ÿ“ฒ)



๐Ÿ”ฅ YOUR DAY 12 REBELLION: BREAK THE SCROLL CYCLE


1. THE SCROLL STOPPER TRIO

๐Ÿ“ต Banish your phone to another room (out of sight, out of spiral).

๐Ÿ“ Write your feelings on anything (napkin, journal, bathroom mirror).

๐ŸŽต Blast Shout Out to My Ex: https://bit.ly/loverebel


2. ADD TO YOUR F*CK IT LIST

๐Ÿ—‘๏ธ "Stalking his social media to fill the void" โ€” scream it into your freezer or burn it.


3. CELEBRATE YOUR WINS

๐Ÿ‘‘ DM @CoachChristyHolt your victories (Deleted his number? Blocked his mom?).


SHOW YOUR POWER: ๐Ÿ“ธ Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your "I stopped stalking!" proof.



RESOURCES & LINKS

๐Ÿ“– UNSTUCK FOR WOMEN BOOK: Break Obsessive Thought Cycles www.gtfu.ca

๐Ÿ”œ NEXT EPISODE: Grieving the Fantasy (Why crying over a "future that never was" is healing)



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๐Ÿ’Œ RATE & REVIEW if this helped you ditch the detective work.

๐Ÿ’Œ COMMENT below: "What's the WEIRDEST thing you've ever cyberstalked?" (Burrito photos? His aunt's Pinterest? ๐Ÿš€)

๐Ÿ’Œ TAG @CoachChristyHolt with your rebellion wins!



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