Have you ever felt the pressure to constantly prove yourself—to be tougher, louder, or more polished just to be taken seriously? In this powerful episode, Shanenn Bryant sits down with retired U.S. Air Force Colonel and leadership expert DeDe Halfhill https://www.linkedin.com/in/dedehalfhill/ to unpack the heavy cost of trying to "earn your worth" in leadership spaces. Together, they dive deep into how our highlight reels, social conditioning, and self-doubt distort our leadership journeys—especially for women.
From military experience to corporate culture, DeDe brings raw insight and practical wisdom on leading with emotional intelligence, empathy, and vulnerability. They explore why real leadership isn’t about perfection or power plays—it’s about connection, courage, and creating space where everyone feels seen and valued. If you're ready to shift from proving to leading, this episode is for you.
In this episode:
-Why does the pressure to prove ourselves often diminish our effectiveness as leaders?
-What makes vulnerability and empathy powerful tools in creating collaborative leadership environments?
-The confidence-arrogance gap is bridged by empathy, not ego.
-How does emotional fluency and body language impact how we lead and are perceived?
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