What do you do when the person who knows you best starts calling you the worst names imaginable? Narcissist. Selfish. Cold. In this episode, I unpack what it feels like to be labeled the villain in someone else’s pain—and how easily those words can start to shape how you see yourself.

I talk about the emotional fallout of being misunderstood, especially in a marriage where wounds speak louder than truth. I dive into shame, self-doubt, and the dangerous weight of asking, “What if they’re right?”

Through personal reflection and scripture, I start to separate who I really am from the story shame keeps trying to tell.

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and hated who you saw…

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re the monster they say you are…

This one’s for you.

You are not what their pain called you.

You are what your healing is becoming.