In this episode of No More Secrets on Sunday, we explore how something meant to bring people closer—love languages—can sometimes be misused or misunderstood. Whether it's weaponizing someone's love language to manipulate, or feeling entitled to love without self-awareness, we unpack how the misuse of this popular framework can actually cause harm. Drawing from personal stories and practical insights, we ask the deeper questions: Are we using love languages to connect or control? Are we giving what we want, or what they truly need?

📚 In This Episode, We Explore:

• What love languages are really about (and what they're not)
• How people misuse love languages in relationships—romantic, platonic, and religious communities
• When "acts of service" become resentment
• Why unmet needs don't justify manipulative behavior
• The difference between desire and demand when it comes to receiving love
• How healing and self-love create space for authentic connection