Most people think a healthy marriage means never considering divorce. I don't think that's true.

In this conversation, I walk through why allowing yourself to honestly consider leaving can actually bring clarity to your relationship—and why refusing to think about it often keeps people stuck in patterns that don't change.

This isn't about encouraging divorce. It's about removing the pressure to stay at all costs so you can actually decide:

Do I want to be here?

Am I willing to grow here?

Is this relationship working the way it is?

Because when staying becomes a choice—not an obligation—everything about how you show up starts to shift. If you're in a place where something feels off, but you haven't been able to name it or talk about it, this will give you a different way to think about it.

If you want to go deeper or get support: https://www.leannepeterson.com/

I work with individuals and couples who want practical, direct guidance to improve their relationships—not just talk about them.

My approach is focused on clarity, structure, and helping you show up differently where it matters most.