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What if the deepest betrayal wasn’t his cheating… but the way you abandoned yourself to keep him?
For years, I punished myself for his infidelity. I believed if I could just be prettier, sexier, happier, or more “positive,” he would change. I gaslit myself into denial, ignored my intuition, and became a version of me that wasn’t even real—just to hold on to a relationship that was already crumbling.
But here’s the truth I wish someone had told me: you are not responsible for how someone else shows up in a relationship. Their choices reflect them, not your worth.
In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Femme Cast, I share:
🎤How self-blame keeps you stuck in betrayal cycles
🎤The “toxic glow-up” that started as punishment but unexpectedly built my strength
🎤The liberating mindset shift that allowed me to finally walk away
🎤Why someone else’s betrayal has nothing to do with your value
🎤How to reclaim your power by deciding the role people get to play in your life based on how they actually show up
This is more than a story about infidelity—it’s an invitation to stop punishing yourself, to start honoring your worth, and to finally step into the love, freedom, and expansion you’re meant for.
If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t “enough” or blamed yourself for someone else’s betrayal, this episode will shift something deep inside of you.
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By Maria Rei4.9
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What if the deepest betrayal wasn’t his cheating… but the way you abandoned yourself to keep him?
For years, I punished myself for his infidelity. I believed if I could just be prettier, sexier, happier, or more “positive,” he would change. I gaslit myself into denial, ignored my intuition, and became a version of me that wasn’t even real—just to hold on to a relationship that was already crumbling.
But here’s the truth I wish someone had told me: you are not responsible for how someone else shows up in a relationship. Their choices reflect them, not your worth.
In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Femme Cast, I share:
🎤How self-blame keeps you stuck in betrayal cycles
🎤The “toxic glow-up” that started as punishment but unexpectedly built my strength
🎤The liberating mindset shift that allowed me to finally walk away
🎤Why someone else’s betrayal has nothing to do with your value
🎤How to reclaim your power by deciding the role people get to play in your life based on how they actually show up
This is more than a story about infidelity—it’s an invitation to stop punishing yourself, to start honoring your worth, and to finally step into the love, freedom, and expansion you’re meant for.
If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t “enough” or blamed yourself for someone else’s betrayal, this episode will shift something deep inside of you.
Ready to blow up your online presence and make an impact starting today?
Book your 15-minute Unapologetic Visibility Energy Audit — a live IG profile audit designed to help you expand your reach, connect with your audience, and make an impact with your message:
https://www.thefemmecast.com/energy-audit
Ready for a massive visibility breakthrough?
Claim your Unapologetic Visibility Breakthrough — a 5-day 1:1 coaching intensive for women ready to be fully seen, heard, and paid for their voice:
https://www.thefemmecast.com/breakthrough

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