This episode of Her New Lens focuses on “empowered vision,” defined as seeing truthfully when old identities no longer fit, and features guest Kim Korven, who shares her recent decision to end her second marriage after 15 years due to boundarylessness and feeling like her husband’s emotional support person. Kim describes recognizing patterns rooted in childhood programming around earning love, choosing to end relationships without making the other person the enemy, and recalling earlier reinventions, including peacefully divorcing her first husband, raising children, and returning to law school with unexpected support and scholarships after “jumping off the cliff” in faith. She discusses how tension in a home harms kids, practices that build self-love (breathwork, Miracle Morning SAVERS, and alphabet-based gratitude), and her work helping families navigate divorce peacefully and strategically with resources like journal prompts, scripts, and educational modules.

00:00 Empowered Vision Intro

01:29 Meet Kim Korven

02:28 Choosing Yourself Again

04:07 Peaceful Divorce Mindset

06:27 Law School Leap of Faith

09:25 Reframing and Being Caught

11:47 Seeing Your Growth Clearly

14:14 The Guitar Boundary Wakeup

18:40 Ending Without Making Enemies

19:44 April Fourth Reveal

20:01 Trusting The Leap

20:53 Proof From Past

23:06 Morning Practices

26:27 Alphabet Gratitude

28:33 Advice For Mothers

34:13 Courage To Stay Or Go

35:42 Helping Families Divorce

38:38 New Lens Closing