The Monique Dolman Show

By Monique Dolman

The Monique Dolman Show is for the self-aware woman who wants to find her person, build a healthy relationship and never lose herself in love again.

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The podcast currently has 32 episodes available.

The Monique Dolman Show episodes:

September 14, 2026 31. Chemistry Is Lying To You
Chemistry can feel like the ultimate green light in dating, but it’s only one piece of the picture.
In this episode, Monique explores why knowing who you are and what you truly want allows you to slow down, zoom out and assess compatibility beyond the initial spark.
A must-listen for women who want to date more intentionally, trust themselves deeply and stop mistaking intense chemistry for genuine compatibility.
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16min
September 14, 2026 30. The Truth About Getting Engaged!
Monique is engaged! 💍
In this personal episode, she reflects on finding her person, more than a decade of love with Nathan, and what her journey has taught her about dating, self-trust and building a lasting relationship without losing yourself along the way.
A must-listen for any woman navigating dating, love or relationships who wants an honest perspective on what finding and building lasting love can really look like.
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Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
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11min
July 28, 2026 29. This Really Grinds My Gears About The Coaching Industry
There's a pattern Monique keeps seeing in the Coaching Industry and she thinks more people need to be aware of it.
In this episode, Monique shares her honest perspective on what she's noticed after being in the Coaching Industry for he past 7 years. She shares why she thinks it matters and how it can potentially influence your experience as a client.
She also explores what great coaching looks like and the questions to ask so you can make more intentional decisions about where you invest your time, money and trust.
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Support the show
Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
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21min
July 20, 2026 28. This Is How I Stop My Inner Mean Girl from Running The Show
If your inner mean girl is constantly telling you your'e not good enough, second guessing your decisions, or convincing you to play small, this episode is for you.
In this episode, Monique shares the simple mindset technique that she uses to stop identifying with negative thoughts as facts and to start responding to them instead.
You will learn how to break free from the cycle of letting self criticism run your life, to stop feeling like a victim of your own mind and to make taking action feel lighter, easier and a whole lot more fun.
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Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
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20min
July 17, 2026 27. The Real Cost of Self Doubt
Self-doubt doesn't just affect your confidence - it shapes your entire life.
In this episode, Monique unpacks the real cost women pay everyday when they continue to question themselves on repeat. From the opportunities they don't take, to the relationships they settles for, the conversations they avoid and the career moves they miss, self doubt is costing far more than most women want to admit.
This episode is an invitation to have a honest conversation with yourself, uncover what self-doubt has truely been costing you and decide whether you're ready to choose something different.
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Support the show
Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
Enquiries: [email protected]
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20min
July 14, 2026 26. You Are Your Highest ROI
Your time is your most value currency.
The question is: Where is it really going? and are those investments completely within your control alone?
In this episode, Monique explores why the greatest return you'll ever receive comes from investing in yourself. Unlike money invested into markets, assets or vintage bags the time, energy and resources you put into your own growth compound for life.
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Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
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23min
June 01, 2026 25. Feeling lost in your late 20s/early 30s isn't a crisis — it's a calling
If you’re in your late 20s or early 30s feeling lost, behind, confused, or like you don’t recognise yourself anymore, this episode is for you.

Because what if you’re not actually lost?

What if the life, identity, relationships, and goals that once fit no longer do… and you’re standing in the messy middle between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming?

In this episode, I’m sharing why this season isn’t a crisis to fix. It’s a transition to move through.
And why this uncomfortable, uncertain chapter might actually be one of the most important seasons of your life.
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Support the show
Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
Enquiries: [email protected]
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19min
June 01, 2026 24. 10 Things I Would Do If I Were Starting My Self-Trust Journey Again
If you’re constantly overthinking, looking for reassurance, or wondering why confidence feels so hard to hold onto, this episode is for you.

I’m sharing the 10 things I’d do if I was starting my self-trust journey from scratch.

These are the lessons I’ve learned through years of personal development, plenty of mistakes, and more than $70,000 invested into figuring out what actually creates lasting change.
The 10 things that genuinely helped me trust myself more, speak up sooner, and stop handing my power away.
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Support the show
Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
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37min
May 20, 202623. Your Problem Isn't The Problem.. The Protection It Gives You Is.
Most people think their problem is the problem.
But often, the real issue is the protection the pattern gives them.
In this episode, Monique dives into the psychology of secondary gain — the unconscious emotional payoff behind self-sabotage, overthinking, procrastination, people pleasing, perfectionism, and staying stuck in familiar patterns.
We unpack:
why change can feel threatening to the nervous system
how familiar pain often feels safer than unfamiliar growth
the hidden ways people protect themselves from rejection, failure, pressure, and vulnerability
and why taking responsibility for your life is one of the most empowered things you can do
You’ll walk away with powerful reflection questions to help you uncover your own secondary gain, understand what’s really keeping you stuck, and start shifting from self-protection into self-leadership.
Plus, message Monique on Instagram for the bonus freebie on how to turn your secondary gain into something productive instead of self-sabotaging.
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Support the show
Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
Enquiries: [email protected]
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16min
May 20, 202622. The Real Reason Change Destroy Some People and Expands Others
Most people think confident people are just “better” at change.
But that’s not actually true.
In this episode, we unpack the real reason change destroys some people while it expands others — and what’s actually happening underneath the fear, overthinking, resistance, and self-sabotage that so many women experience during change.
Monique shares her own experiences navigating massive identity shifts across business, relationships, leadership, confidence, and life… including the fears and insecurities that came with them.
We dive into:
why your nervous system resists change
the deeper fear underneath uncertainty
how identity attachment keeps people stuck
why self-trust matters more than confidence
and how to stop sabotaging the next version of yourself
You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of change at a psychological level, practical reflection questions to help you gain clarity, and tangible ways to build evidence that you can trust yourself through the unknown.
Because the goal isn’t to avoid fear.
It’s to become someone who can move with it.
Send us Fan Mail
Support the show
Click HERE to follow Monique on instagram for all things dating, love, relationships and becoming the woman who never loses herself trying to be chosen.
Want to know exactly what’s keeping you stuck in dating?
Email or DM monique to book in your free Secure Dating Clarity Call with Monique to uncover the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating and explore whether The Secure Woman Program is your next step for you.
Enquiries: [email protected]
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41min

FAQs about The Monique Dolman Show:

How many episodes does The Monique Dolman Show have?

The podcast currently has 32 episodes available.