A simple moment in Montreal—trying to speak French at a diner—turned into something bigger. My daughter laughed, surprised, even proud. It wasn’t about the words. It was about showing I was willing to grow, willing to step into her world.

Why it’s important:Divorce can make parents feel like they’re always losing ground. But kids don’t measure love in court orders or schedules. They see it in the little efforts—the times you show up, try something new, and surprise them. That’s how trust is rebuilt: step by step, word by word.

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