Money conversations quickly become uncomfortable territory for most of us, but they're absolutely essential when navigating major life transitions. How do you rebuild your financial foundation after 40? What happens when you suddenly go from two incomes to one? How do you manage money responsibilities that are completely new to you?

I've received countless questions about restarting financially after career changes, life shifts, and personal transformations. The truth is, many of us have deeply skewed relationships with our finances—relationships built on fear, avoidance, and sometimes denial. But financial clarity begins with radical honesty.

Instead of constantly adjusting your life to match your money (downsizing, sacrificing, and restricting), consider what would happen if you allowed your money to align with the life you truly want. This doesn't mean spending beyond your means, but rather getting crystal clear on your authentic desires and priorities. Who are you really "flexing" for? What red carpets are you walking that justify financial stress? The path forward begins with practical steps—creating that Excel sheet with all your debts and expenses, tracking every dollar that passes through your hands, and making decisions from a place of authenticity rather than fear.

Whether you're the person who's always handled the money or someone facing financial responsibility for the first time, this conversation will challenge you to examine your relationship with money and take ownership of your financial future. Are you ready to make that shift? Take out that Excel sheet today and start building the honest financial foundation you deserve.

There's a unique power in speaking your truth that can transform both your life and the lives of those around you. After hiding behind perfectly crafted veneers for decades, I finally shared my divorce story publicly—and it went viral, not because it was polished, but because it was honest.

Vulnerability isn't just about spilling your guts without preparation. The most impactful storytelling happens when you've metabolized your experiences enough to speak without being overwhelmed by emotion. For me, that meant a year of therapy sessions, conversations with trusted family members, and deep internal work before I could share publicly. This wasn't about crafting a perfect script but allowing my truth to settle within me first.

Your story becomes medicine for someone else's wounds. When I looked for narratives about divorce in spiritual communities, I found a devastating void—so I became the voice I wished I'd had during my darkest moments. Your experiences, however painful or seemingly insignificant, could be exactly what someone else needs to hear to feel less alone. The weight of carrying your untold story is often heavier than the temporary discomfort of sharing it. Whether through spoken words, writing, or other creative expressions, find your way to release what's been locked inside. Your future self will thank you for the courage to speak up now, and someone walking a similar path will find hope in knowing they're not the only one. What story are you keeping silent that could set both you and others free?

"How could I be afraid of what I've always wanted?" That's the question I confronted after creating the space and freedom to pursue my dreams—only to find myself deliberately avoiding the very work I claimed to desire. This profound contradiction revealed the hidden saboteur many of us face: the fear of success.

After spending nearly two decades in a supportive role, prioritizing my partner's dreams and our shared vision, I found myself at 40 starting over. The divorce that ended my marriage also ended the comfortable excuses I'd used to justify not pursuing my personal calling. With journals full of ideas I'd been collecting for years, I finally had the freedom to create the life I'd always imagined. Yet something powerful held me back.

What I discovered through painful self-reflection was that success terrified me at a visceral level. Success would mean fundamental change—potentially making me unrelatable to loved ones, disrupting the quiet simplicity I'd recently established, and most frighteningly, removing any external circumstances to blame for not living my purpose. The comfortable identity of having "potential" would be replaced by the responsibility of actualizing it.

This pattern of self-betrayal creates an internal conflict that undermines everything. When we repeatedly break promises to ourselves about pursuing our dreams, we damage the most fundamental relationship—the one with ourselves and our calling. The familiar discomfort of unfulfilled dreams becomes preferable to the terrifying prospect of achieving them and facing the new identity that would emerge.

Are you experiencing this same contradiction? Can you see your vision clearly but find yourself distracted by lesser priorities? Do you know exactly what steps to take but somehow never take them? That's not laziness—it's fear. On the other side of this fear lies everything you've ever wanted—the alignment of purpose, passion, and daily experience that makes problems diminish in importance and time fly by.

What would happen if you sat with yourself long enough to identify what you're really avoiding? Take the next right step today toward what makes you feel alive. I'll be your accountability partner if you'll be mine.

Breaking away from marriage after 18 years unexpectedly led me down a path of sexual self-discovery through abstinence. What started as a healing space transformed into a profound journey of empowerment that completely shifted my relationship with my sexuality and sense of self.

When we discuss abstinence, it's typically framed as deprivation or restriction. My experience revealed something entirely different – that not having sex became almost as powerful as having it. Around month six, something remarkable happened. I began recognizing my body's patterns, understanding my emotional triggers, and distinguishing between genuine desire and the search for external validation. This awareness brought an unexpected gift: the ability to make choices from clarity rather than impulse.

During my marriage, sexuality had been primarily focused on pleasing my partner. "How do I satisfy my partner? How do I stay up on my game to make this person happy?" I had never created space to cultivate a relationship with my own desires. Abstinence allowed me to ask profound questions: What does healthy sexuality mean to me? What do I truly want? How can I express my sensuality in ways that honor my values? These explorations led to greater confidence, stronger boundaries, and a more authentic expression of my femininity than I'd ever experienced.

The greatest revelation has been setting the intention to wait for someone I want to spend my life with – not from obligation or fear, but from understanding what I want most. I've learned that developing trust with myself about my sexual boundaries builds a foundation that remains solid even during attraction and temptation. This journey isn't about permanent celibacy but understanding that sometimes our most profound sexual awakening comes through giving ourselves the gift of time and space to discover who we are without outside influence.

Ready to explore your own relationship with sexuality? Join the conversation and share your experience – because understanding ourselves is the first step toward creating the passionate, healthy intimate relationships we truly desire.

Have you been living with the constant expectation that happiness must be balanced by suffering? That for every high, there must be a corresponding low? You're not alone.

For twenty years, I operated under the belief that "the other shoe must drop" whenever something good happened in my life. It was like clockwork – a beautiful moment of joy would be quickly followed by the sky falling the very next day. I had internalized this pattern so deeply that it became my normal, and I suspect many of you have done the same.

But what if I told you this cycle isn't inevitable? What if joy isn't something that must be earned through suffering, but rather your birthright as a human being? This revelation changed everything for me, and it can for you too.

When we face emotional slumps, our natural tendency is to look outward – blaming circumstances, relationships, or external factors for our unhappiness. We tell ourselves, "I'll be happy when..." placing the power for our joy in things beyond our control. The truth is that joy cultivation is an inside job, something no one else can do for you.

Through my own journey, I've discovered practical tools for shifting from low-vibrating emotions like guilt and shame toward higher frequencies of courage, gratitude, and ultimately, joy. These aren't abstract concepts but tangible practices you can implement immediately – from intentional gratitude lists to positive self-talk and strategic focus on what you want rather than what you fear.

Ready to reclaim your power and cultivate joy regardless of circumstances? Listen now, and then share in the comments how you plan to cultivate joy in your life. Subscribe for more conversations that will transform how you experience everyday living.

After a profound personal awakening, I'm sharing my journey from external striving to authentic living. For twenty years, I chased all the markers of conventional success—wealth, recognition, luxury possessions, and public visibility. I built a life that looked perfect from the outside while feeling increasingly empty within.

When my eighteen-year marriage ended, I lost everything that had defined my identity and success. This devastating loss became the catalyst for a deep spiritual exploration—through hypnotherapy, plant medicine, breath work, and numerous healing modalities. What emerged was a startling truth: I had been betraying myself all along, constructing a life based on cultural expectations rather than my authentic needs.

The most surprising revelation came when I finally lost my financial security—my W-2 income that had sustained my lifestyle post-divorce. Instead of experiencing the anticipated terror of insecurity, I found unprecedented peace and clarity. As I sold 90% of my possessions and simplified radically, I discovered a level of happiness I'd never known before. The luxury cars, designer items, and impressive homes I had acquired never provided the fulfillment I sought because external things cannot create internal wholeness. Everything we truly need already exists within us, waiting to be recognized beneath the distractions of constant achievement and acquisition. What would your life look like if you stopped chasing illusions and started building on what genuinely matters to you? Don't wait for tragedy to reveal these truths—choose authentic living today.

What if the key to liberation is hidden in the power of letting go? Join me on the Myesha podcast as I share my transformative journey through the dark night of the soul—an experience that taught me the profound growth that comes with releasing what no longer serves us. Whether it's past relationships, fears, or insecurities, clinging to them can be a heavy burden. Through personal anecdotes, I reveal how the exploration of psychedelics, particularly mushrooms, became a pivotal tool in my healing process. By lowering the ego, these experiences allowed me to confront my true self and reset conditioned neural pathways, opening my mind to new perspectives and healing.

This episode doesn't just stop at personal growth through psychedelics. We delve into the courage it takes to let go of dreams or relationships that aren't meant for us, despite the fear and uncertainty that accompany such choices. I passionately discuss how creating space for new beginnings can lead to personal empowerment and spiritual enrichment. By being present and embracing the beauty of each moment, we invite listeners to trust in the journey and share their own stories of release. This path, though challenging, promises profound fulfillment and the strength to embrace change with open arms.

How do you remain kind and compassionate to those who have hurt you, especially when betrayal strikes close to home? Join me as I share my deeply personal journey through the labyrinth of betrayal in relationships, a journey that truly began with the unexpected revelations during my divorce. As someone who tends to be non-confrontational and struggles to recall past offenses, the shock of discovering unexpected behaviors from trusted individuals was transformative. We’ll also grapple with the delicate social issues surrounding post-relationship dynamics, exploring the tangled web of interconnectedness within communities that can complicate moving on and redefining boundaries after significant life changes.

Betrayal can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth if we allow ourselves to feel the pain and learn from it. This episode is also a reflection on conversations with God, recognizing how these painful experiences can teach resilience and wisdom. I navigate the challenge of maintaining my compassionate nature in the face of hurt while understanding the necessity for personal growth and self-protection. Embracing betrayal as an opportunity for self-discovery and strength, rather than allowing it to define our self-worth, is the heart of this discussion. Together, let’s process these emotions constructively and use this journey to find strength and wisdom in adversity.

Have you ever found yourself chasing success, only to feel emptiness despite achieving it? On today's episode of the Myesha Podcast, I share my personal journey from a life of people-pleasing and self-betrayal to discovering the profound power of self-love and authenticity. Growing up, I was trapped in the pursuit of external validation, which led to a disconnect from my true self. It wasn't until I experienced significant loss and embarked on a journey of introspection that I realized the importance of aligning with my authentic self. By stepping away from external distractions and focusing inward, I discovered that true happiness comes from embracing who we genuinely are.

Join me as we uncover the transformative impact of self-awareness and the importance of setting strong personal boundaries. Moving beyond societal pressures, I explore how prioritizing our own needs and desires not only fosters personal growth but also sets the tone for how we are treated by others. Through sharing my story, I hope to inspire you to reflect on your own relationship with yourself, encouraging a shift from seeking fulfillment externally to finding contentment within. Let's embark on this path of self-discovery and personal growth together, embracing our vulnerabilities and redefining the way we love ourselves.

Trusting in yourself and betting on your capabilities can be the most challenging yet liberating journey one can embark on. This episode discusses transitioning from a shared life and ministry during a divorce to embracing personal ambitions, overcoming fears, and finding financial independence. 

• Sharing personal backstory of ambition and early goals 
• Navigating the complexities of marriage and ministry 
• The impact of divorce on financial and personal identity 
• Overcoming the fear of independence post-relationship 
• Embracing the challenge of reinventing oneself at 42 
• Encouragement to trust and bet on yourself 
• The importance of severing ties to the past for growth 
• Highlighting shared experiences among women facing similar challenges 
• Reflection on the power of vulnerability and authenticity in storytelling 
• Conclusion on the transformative nature of self-belief, faith, and resilience