The Velvet Void

The Narcissistic Ex Who Swears You’re the Abuser


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They hurt you.

They lied, manipulated, gaslit, and abandoned you.

And now… they’re telling everyone you were the abuser.


This week on The Velvet Void, Pandora unpacks the psychological warfare of narcissistic smear campaigns — and what happens when the abuser flips the script and plays the victim. We’re diving deep into DARVO, reputation damage, and how survivors are left holding both the trauma and the blame.


You’ll learn:

• How narcissists rewrite reality to protect their ego

• The signs you’re being used as a scapegoat

• Why their “healing era” is just a new mask

• And how to stop defending yourself when the truth is already in your scars


If you’ve ever been painted as the villain in someone else’s performance — this episode is for you.


🖤 You are not what they say.

🖤 You don’t owe anyone your story.

🖤 You’re allowed to heal louder than they lied.

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The Velvet VoidBy Pandora Raven