The Nature of Things

The Nature of Things: Ep. 5 "That's Pick-Me-Ism"


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The timeline’s favorite duo is back — and this week, The Nature of Things gets messier than a Zeus reunion special. Rashad and Kenya kick off Episode 5: “Pick-Me-Ism” with the emotional saga of Kevin McCall, who went from writing hits for Chris Brown to crying on a podcast about being on EBT — right after accusing Chris and Bryson Tiller of being, let’s just say… “closer than collaborators.” 👀 Rashad calls cap, Kenya plays therapist, and the two unpack whether podcasts are helping people heal or just farming trauma for clicks. Then the conversation pivots to Gucci Mane and Keyshia Ka’Oir, whose marriage has the internet split. Keyshia admitted she literally had six bodyguards drag Gucci to a hospital during a mental health crisis — and deleted his social apps for his protection. Some say she’s a “handler,” others say she’s a “healer.” Rashad wonders why folks praise that dynamic but call Wendy Williams’ conservatorship “control.” The contradictions in “care” culture get real — and funny.

Then comes the main event: Kenya coins a new term that deserves its own TED Talk — Pick-Me-Ism™. The two dive into a viral video where a woman says ignoring “Twitter relationship advice” helped her get engaged, sparking a debate on whether modern women are sabotaging love in the name of independence. Rashad says love requires vulnerability; Kenya says too many men want submission without reciprocity. Then things get spicy — they tackle Iggy Azalea’s comeback and whether a white woman can ever be the best rapper in hip-hop. Rashad says yes (and dodges virtual tomatoes), Kenya says absolutely not — “rhythm is rented, not owned.” They wrap up with Brian McKnight’s bizarre victory lap: celebrating an $8.8M legal win against his ex-wife on the birthday of his deceased son. Rashad admits the music still slaps, Kenya just gives him that look. 💀 “Pick-Me-Ism” is one part cultural critique, one part confession booth — a hilarious, thought-provoking dive into love, loyalty, and lunacy in 2025.

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