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The Next Step Into Solitude: Christmas Eve at 3700 metres


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A set of keys in Kathmandu. A simple invitation. And suddenly, the next step arranges itself.

In this first episode of The Himalayan Diary, I share how I arrived at a remote gompa in Mustang, Nepal and the sequence of small, clear steps that carried me there: from Kathmandu, to Pokhara, to an unplanned day that brought clarity, and then a remarkably smooth journey north into the Himalayas; arriving on Christmas Eve, alone, at around 3,700 metres.

This series is recorded from my solo retreat at Rinpoche’s gompa: a shift in pace, rhythm, and attention; and an entry into a very simple way of living.

In this episode we explore

A moment in Kathmandu that changes the direction of the journey... the keys, and the choice

A foggy morning in Pokhara that clears, both outside and inside.

An unexpected trail day: asking, accepting, and letting myself be guided.

Arrival and the first reality of settling in: damaged roof, cold, and the basics.

Returning to essentials: warmth, water, food, rest, and light.

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A companion while walking, resting, or taking a pause.

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Where in my life is there a “keys" moment... a small exchange that changes direction?

What becomes simple when I stop negotiating and take one clear step?

What helps the fog lift for me? Just enough to see the next step?

Where am I being invited to accept help, guidance, or support... even in a small way?

If I ask myself, What do I need now? What’s essential? What can wait?

What’s the honest answer today?

Write a short list:

  • Essential (1–3 things)
  • Can wait
  • Already works
  • Then choose one “essential” action you can do in the next 24 hours.

Mentioned in this episode:

Peace Stupa and Shiva Statue in Pokhara

Khenpo Konchok Tashi Rinpoche

In the next episode:

I’ll share what happened on Christmas day… when I sat in the kitchen with a cup of coffee, watching the morning sun spill through the windows… and what it felt like to spend a whole day alone, without feeling lonely.

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This is LifeBy Borghild Bø