Most women wouldn’t marry their husbands if they had it to do all over again. Renowned gender expert Susan Shapiro Barash’s research shows that the percentage of women who feel this way has increased to 65 percent over the 36 percent recorded six years earlier in a Woman’s Day and AOL Living poll. In her 13th book, THE NINE PHASES OF MARRIAGE: HOW TO MAKE IT, BREAK IT, KEEP IT (St. Martin’s Griffin – Sept. 18, 2012), Barash is brutally honest in divulging the ups and downs most wives will face through different stages and trials of marriage, from the honeymoon, to raising children to redefining relationships once the kids are out of the house.