Church Psychology

The Number One Phrase to Improve Small Talk


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Ever wondered why small talk, often considered trivial and mundane, can be so significant in establishing deep connections? Buckle up as my co-host, Matt and I, traverse the intriguing landscape of casual chatter, underpinned by an insightful article that captures its appeal and engagement in conversations. We shed light on how to leverage small talk, not just as an ice-breaker, but as a powerful tool to forge meaningful relationships. 

Taking cues from the wisdom of CS Lewis, we explore humility as the cornerstone of Christian life and its role in fostering heartfelt conversations. By sprinkling empathy and curiosity into chats, we demonstrate how it's possible to build significant relationships without the crutch of shared interests. We also reveal the underplayed potency of ‘mind-reading’ in conversations - an art that makes others feel acknowledged and understood. As we dissect these elements, it becomes evident that small talk holds the potential to be a game-changer in our interactions. So, join us and learn to embrace the transformative power vested in everyday conversations.

Show Notes:

  • https://apple.news/Ayem5YVoMQE2jk2m-SMYvjQ
  • https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Think-Faster-Talk-Smarter/Matt-Abrahams/9781668010303
  • https://www.themuse.com/advice/what-is-empathetic-listening-definition-examples
  • 1 Peter 3:8 ESV
    Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind.
  • Romans 12:15 ESV
    Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
  • Galatians 6:2 ESV 
    Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
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Church PsychologyBy The Negev Institute