In this episode we meet Dorcas, one of the hosts of the Mother You Know. The Mother You Don't. Sylvia, Dorcas and Lydia discuss their perceptions of church and faith, highlighting the challenges of legalism and the importance of a personal relationship with God. They also share their experiences of becoming mothers and the impact it had on their lives. In this part of the conversation, Dorcas discusses the end of her first relationship and the challenges she faced as a young mother. She reflects on the joy and fulfillment she found in raising her children and the importance of finding a partner who shares the same goals and values. Dorcas also shares her experiences of navigating single motherhood and the lessons she learned along the way. Finally, Dorcas discusses the differences in her parenting style compared to her own mother's and the importance of incorporating faith into everyday life. The hosts discuss the challenges of letting go and preparing children for independence. They reflect on the transition to empty nesters and the need to find identity outside of motherhood. The hosts also discuss the importance of breaking generational cycles and learning emotional intelligence. They conclude by reflecting on their parenting choices and the importance of letting go of bitterness and moving on.