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The One-Person Horse
This episode reveals what horses teach us about the real foundation of lasting bonds: consistency beats intensity every single time. You'll discover why your small, daily actions matter more than grand romantic gestures, why reliable people are irresistible (even to 1,200-pound animals), and how the same principles that create unbreakable horse-human partnerships can transform your relationships with family, friends, and romantic partners. Based on solid research, this isn't feel-good advice—it's the psychology of how trust actually develops, with practical insights you can apply immediately to become the kind of person others instinctively want to be around.
References
Brubaker, L., Schroeder, K., Sherwood, D., Stroud, D., & Udell, M. (2021). Horse behavior towards familiar and unfamiliar humans: Implications for equine-assisted services. Animals, 11(8), 2369. https://doi.org/10.3390/ani11082369
Hartmann, E., Rehn, T., Christensen, J. W., Nielsen, P. P., & McGreevy, P. D. (2021). From the horse's perspective: Investigating attachment behaviour and the effect of training method on fear reactions and ease of handling—A pilot study. Animals, 11(2), 457. https://doi.org/10.3390/ani11020457
Liehrmann, O., Viitanen, A., Riihonen, V., Alander, E., Koski, S. E., Lummaa, V., & Lansade, L. (2022). Multiple handlers, several owner changes and short relationship lengths affect horses' responses to novel object tests. Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 254, 105709. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.applanim.2022.105709
Lundberg, P., Hartmann, E., & Roth, L. S. V. (2020). Does training style affect the human-horse relationship? Asking the horse in a separation–reunion experiment with the owner and a stranger. Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 231, 105144. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.applanim.2020.105144
Maros, K., Boross, B., & Kubinyi, E. (2010). Approach and follow behaviour – possible indicators of the human–horse relationship. Interaction Studies, 11(3), 410-427. https://doi.org/10.1075/IS.11.3.05MAR
Scopa, C., Greco, A., Contalbrigo, L., Fratini, E., Lanatà, A., Scilingo, E. P., & Baragli, P. (2020). Inside the interaction: Contact with familiar humans modulates heart rate variability in horses. Frontiers in Veterinary Science, 7, 582759. https://doi.org/10.3389/fvets.2020.582759
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit esthernava.substack.com
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By Esther AdamsThis episode reveals what horses teach us about the real foundation of lasting bonds: consistency beats intensity every single time. You'll discover why your small, daily actions matter more than grand romantic gestures, why reliable people are irresistible (even to 1,200-pound animals), and how the same principles that create unbreakable horse-human partnerships can transform your relationships with family, friends, and romantic partners. Based on solid research, this isn't feel-good advice—it's the psychology of how trust actually develops, with practical insights you can apply immediately to become the kind of person others instinctively want to be around.
References
Brubaker, L., Schroeder, K., Sherwood, D., Stroud, D., & Udell, M. (2021). Horse behavior towards familiar and unfamiliar humans: Implications for equine-assisted services. Animals, 11(8), 2369. https://doi.org/10.3390/ani11082369
Hartmann, E., Rehn, T., Christensen, J. W., Nielsen, P. P., & McGreevy, P. D. (2021). From the horse's perspective: Investigating attachment behaviour and the effect of training method on fear reactions and ease of handling—A pilot study. Animals, 11(2), 457. https://doi.org/10.3390/ani11020457
Liehrmann, O., Viitanen, A., Riihonen, V., Alander, E., Koski, S. E., Lummaa, V., & Lansade, L. (2022). Multiple handlers, several owner changes and short relationship lengths affect horses' responses to novel object tests. Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 254, 105709. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.applanim.2022.105709
Lundberg, P., Hartmann, E., & Roth, L. S. V. (2020). Does training style affect the human-horse relationship? Asking the horse in a separation–reunion experiment with the owner and a stranger. Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 231, 105144. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.applanim.2020.105144
Maros, K., Boross, B., & Kubinyi, E. (2010). Approach and follow behaviour – possible indicators of the human–horse relationship. Interaction Studies, 11(3), 410-427. https://doi.org/10.1075/IS.11.3.05MAR
Scopa, C., Greco, A., Contalbrigo, L., Fratini, E., Lanatà, A., Scilingo, E. P., & Baragli, P. (2020). Inside the interaction: Contact with familiar humans modulates heart rate variability in horses. Frontiers in Veterinary Science, 7, 582759. https://doi.org/10.3389/fvets.2020.582759
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit esthernava.substack.com