Women dress modestly to stay safe around men who think that immodest women are asking for it, when in fact, we are in the most danger when we are modest in sexually repressed environments. When Tia shared the comments that stemmed from her reel about pants and fundies with no undies (@tialevingswriter) the Jezzies had to mash the fruit of modest culture and r@pe myths.

Also in this episode: Gwen Shamblin's son in pop culture and a big segment on perimenopause and medical gaslighting.

Stay fresh, betches!

Resources We Talked About Today:

Video from Daniella Mestyanek-Young

"You Are Not Your Own: Rape, Sexual Assault and Consent in Evangelical Christian Dating Books" Article

"The Way Down" Docuseries on Gwen Shamblin

Interview with Gwen Shamblin's son

My Alloy - Perimenopause support and Hormone Therapy

Pre-order Tia's book, A Well-Trained Wife

Religious Trauma + Elections Course use code WISEJEZEBELS for $15 off!

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