For so long I've thought in terms of winning and losing. Winning the game, having the last word, etc. When I either lost, didn't get my way or what I wanted, etc., I would take it personal and get stuck in what I felt what I wasn't receiving.  

I've learned that regardless of what the scoreboard shows or what it may look like I didn't get or have, is that I am always winning. It all comes down to perspective.

Treasure Yourself & Shine :)