Everyone says “terrible twos” but as a parent, age 3 can actually be much harder. One of the biggest shifts between 2 and 3 is that children become much more capable without becoming much more regulated. That’s often why parenting can feel more difficult. This episode focused on the developmental differences between age 2 and age 3 and how to best support this as a parent. This included:
Executive function and self-regulation development at 3The role of language and cognition developmentThree-year olds’ NEED for independenceWhy whining, screaming, and negotiating increaseThe difference between knowing and doing for behaviorDescribing strategies to use in your own parenting:
Staying neutral and calm in your reactionsValidate your child’s feelingsHold boundaries warmly and calmly (see Episode 3 for more on boundaries)Talk less during meltdowns - save teaching for laterLook for WHY the behavior is happening (hunger, tired, overstimulation, etc.)Expect repetition and be consistentPractice self-regulation with games (red light/green light, freeze dance) or pretend play“The Rabbit Listened” by Cori Doerrfeld“When Sophie Gets Angry - Really Really Angry” by Molly Bang“Little Monkey Calms Down” by Michael Dahl“Llama Llama Mad at Mama” by Anne Dewdney“I Can Do It Myself!” by Diane Adams“The Pout Pout Fish and the Mad, Mad Day” by Deborah Diesen“The Whole Brain Child” by Dan Siegel & Tina Payne-Bryson“How to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen” by Joanna Faber & Julie King“Raising a Secure Child” by Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert PowellSupport my show! I’d love it if you would subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show.
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