God doesn't want to "USE" us, He wants us to join "The Partnership" When someone is "used", only one person benefits...when we are in a "partnership", both parties benefit!It's not a constricting commitment when you're in love...it's what lovers do!John 14:23 "Jesus answered, 'If anyone loves Me, he will keep My Word & My Father will love him, & we will come to him & make Our abode with him.'"