Are you making these critical mistakes after your breakup or divorce? In this video, I break down the 3 most common and destructive patterns that men fall into after ending a relationship - mistakes that cause more pain and drama than almost anything else. Based on real conversations with men who've been through this exact situation, I'll show you how to avoid the traps that keep you stuck in toxic cycles and prevent you from building healthy relationships. What You'll Learn: ✅ Why jumping into a new relationship too quickly always backfires ✅ The dangerous attraction trap that blinds you to red flags ✅ How dating without clear intention creates chaos and drama ✅ Real strategies to process trauma and move forward healthily This isn't just theory - these are real patterns I've seen destroy good men over and over again. Don't let this happen to you. Chapter Titles: 0:00 - Introduction: The Pattern I Keep Seeing 1:05 - The Story: From Marriage to Affair to Chaos 4:45 - Mistake #1: Not Processing Your Trauma First 7:15 - Mistake #2: The "Perfect 10" Attraction Trap 10:40 - Mistake #3: Dating Without Clear Intention 12:25 - Why Women's Fear Escalates Without Direction 15:15 - The Three Key Takeaways

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