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The Pattern That Keeps You in Toxic Relationships w/Anette Nilsson
Welcome to Compassiviste Dialogues. I'm Ali, your host, and my mission with this podcast is to shed light on critical social and environmental issues worldwide, exploring avenues for positive change.
In this conversation, Anette Nilsson shares her journey of self-discovery, healing, and resilience. She discusses the early signs of toxic love, the impact of illness on her life, and the importance of connecting with oneself.
Through her experiences, she emphasizes the significance of acceptance, compassion, and the distinction between belonging and merely staying in a place. Annette also explores the role of spirituality and nature in her healing process, ultimately defining home as an internal state of being connected to one's true self. In this conversation, the speakers explore the themes of compassion, spirituality, and personal transformation.
They discuss the importance of understanding one's connection to the universe and the feminine force of compassion that guides us. The concept of 'soul happy' is introduced as a state of authentic living, emphasizing the need for individuals to reclaim their joy and connection to themselves.
The dialogue also touches on the role of education in fostering compassion and the necessity of personal accountability in creating a better world. The speakers reflect on their journeys of finding God and the impact of privilege on the path to soul happiness, ultimately advocating for a compassionate approach to life and society.
ABOUT GUEST:
Anette Nilsson is a self-led entrepreneur and former tech consultant turned full-time writer, the guest has walked a hard-won healing path. After confronting severe Crohn’s disease and the fallout of an unhealthy lifestyle, they discovered the deep link between physical recovery and what they call “soul happiness”—and the role that soul unhappiness can play in illness. Drawing on nutritional, spiritual, and self-development practices, they now share practical tools, resources, and grounded wisdom to help others move from depletion to wholeness. Writing has long been their metier and compass, carrying them through setbacks to become an empowered author and soulful storyteller committed to helping people live more authentic, happier, and balanced lives.
KEY NOTES:
• What Anette wishes she knew before marrying a toxic/narcissistic partner: how they spot “easy prey” and how they hook you (and switch when they sense you pulling away).
• How shame can keep someone stuck and isolated and why reclaiming power matters.
• “Don’t blame the narcissist” (not to protect them to take your power back and stop repeating the pattern).
• Why social media can normalize narcissistic behaviors and amplify narcissistic tendencies.
• Illness as a wake-up call: Crohn’s, autoimmune symptoms, and how Anita links healing to truth, trauma, and emotional roots.
• “Home” as an internal state: the difference between belonging vs. staying somewhere.
• “Viking resilience,” acceptance, and why self-compassion matters more than numb stoicism.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 The Journey Begins: Leaving Denmark for Canada
07:06 Recognizing the Signs of Toxic Love
13:57 The Impact of Illness on Healing and Family Secrets
25:54 Viking Resilience: Embracing Acceptance and Compassion
39:01 Defining Home: Belonging vs. Staying
50:55 Spiritual Awakening: Connecting to the Self
01:09:57 The Feminine Force of Compassion
01:12:02 Understanding Soul Happy
01:17:36 Faith vs. Knowing God
01:24:02 The Journey to Finding God
01:32:37 The Power of Personal Transformation
01:39:29 The Role of Catastrophe in Connection
01:49:56 Privilege and the Path to Soul Happy
01:56:55 Revamping Education for Compassion
02:05:32 The Future of Humanity and Connection
THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST:
Anette Nilsson's Memoir: https://www.anettenilssonauthor.com/
TO LEARN MORE AND STAY CONNECTED:
🌐 Visit our website: https://compassivistedialogues.com/
🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6qt8cYHeIcDmDV8zPKNxMw
🎧 Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/compassiviste-dialogues/id1735926709
CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Compassiviste/61555898333856/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/compassiviste/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@compassiviste
Twitter: https://twitter.com/compassiviste
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/compassiviste/
Tune in, follow, and embark on this insightful journey with us. Your vision's transformation begins now. 🚀🌟
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By Compassiviste DialoguesWelcome to Compassiviste Dialogues. I'm Ali, your host, and my mission with this podcast is to shed light on critical social and environmental issues worldwide, exploring avenues for positive change.
In this conversation, Anette Nilsson shares her journey of self-discovery, healing, and resilience. She discusses the early signs of toxic love, the impact of illness on her life, and the importance of connecting with oneself.
Through her experiences, she emphasizes the significance of acceptance, compassion, and the distinction between belonging and merely staying in a place. Annette also explores the role of spirituality and nature in her healing process, ultimately defining home as an internal state of being connected to one's true self. In this conversation, the speakers explore the themes of compassion, spirituality, and personal transformation.
They discuss the importance of understanding one's connection to the universe and the feminine force of compassion that guides us. The concept of 'soul happy' is introduced as a state of authentic living, emphasizing the need for individuals to reclaim their joy and connection to themselves.
The dialogue also touches on the role of education in fostering compassion and the necessity of personal accountability in creating a better world. The speakers reflect on their journeys of finding God and the impact of privilege on the path to soul happiness, ultimately advocating for a compassionate approach to life and society.
ABOUT GUEST:
Anette Nilsson is a self-led entrepreneur and former tech consultant turned full-time writer, the guest has walked a hard-won healing path. After confronting severe Crohn’s disease and the fallout of an unhealthy lifestyle, they discovered the deep link between physical recovery and what they call “soul happiness”—and the role that soul unhappiness can play in illness. Drawing on nutritional, spiritual, and self-development practices, they now share practical tools, resources, and grounded wisdom to help others move from depletion to wholeness. Writing has long been their metier and compass, carrying them through setbacks to become an empowered author and soulful storyteller committed to helping people live more authentic, happier, and balanced lives.
KEY NOTES:
• What Anette wishes she knew before marrying a toxic/narcissistic partner: how they spot “easy prey” and how they hook you (and switch when they sense you pulling away).
• How shame can keep someone stuck and isolated and why reclaiming power matters.
• “Don’t blame the narcissist” (not to protect them to take your power back and stop repeating the pattern).
• Why social media can normalize narcissistic behaviors and amplify narcissistic tendencies.
• Illness as a wake-up call: Crohn’s, autoimmune symptoms, and how Anita links healing to truth, trauma, and emotional roots.
• “Home” as an internal state: the difference between belonging vs. staying somewhere.
• “Viking resilience,” acceptance, and why self-compassion matters more than numb stoicism.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 The Journey Begins: Leaving Denmark for Canada
07:06 Recognizing the Signs of Toxic Love
13:57 The Impact of Illness on Healing and Family Secrets
25:54 Viking Resilience: Embracing Acceptance and Compassion
39:01 Defining Home: Belonging vs. Staying
50:55 Spiritual Awakening: Connecting to the Self
01:09:57 The Feminine Force of Compassion
01:12:02 Understanding Soul Happy
01:17:36 Faith vs. Knowing God
01:24:02 The Journey to Finding God
01:32:37 The Power of Personal Transformation
01:39:29 The Role of Catastrophe in Connection
01:49:56 Privilege and the Path to Soul Happy
01:56:55 Revamping Education for Compassion
02:05:32 The Future of Humanity and Connection
THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST:
Anette Nilsson's Memoir: https://www.anettenilssonauthor.com/
TO LEARN MORE AND STAY CONNECTED:
🌐 Visit our website: https://compassivistedialogues.com/
🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6qt8cYHeIcDmDV8zPKNxMw
🎧 Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/compassiviste-dialogues/id1735926709
CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Compassiviste/61555898333856/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/compassiviste/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@compassiviste
Twitter: https://twitter.com/compassiviste
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/compassiviste/
Tune in, follow, and embark on this insightful journey with us. Your vision's transformation begins now. 🚀🌟