The Perspective Matters Podcast

As we close out 2021; if you were to audit how you used your time; would you be satisfied or would you be dissatisfied? Time is precious and how you use it demonstrates the value you place on time. So with 27 days left in the year; how do you plan on using the time. Are you going to cruise to the end; because lets face it 2021 was a challenging year! Are you going to end with a bang and give it your last shot? However you choose to use the time; it's really your prerogative. 

I would encourage you to invest the time and be intentional with how you use it and who you share it with. Identify what or who is important to you. Uncover the why; write the goal, outline the actions, find the accountability partner and get to it! I hope the Christmas season finds you celebrating the fact that you are still here and you still have so much to give, see and do! Take care of yourselves and remember "there are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view!"

Personal Development doesn’t always have to be so serious! It can be fun! As Jamaicans we can be so expressive and so creative in giving our commonsense wisdom. We are fearless when we communicate. The proverbs I share are centered around the theme of knowing your limit. Growth happens outside of your comfort zone so a willingness to push past your limit is a sure way to evolve! The proverbs below share this sentiment.

Monkey mus know weh him go put him tail before him order trousiz. Be clear about how you’re going to carry out the task; before you initiate the process. Before taking on projects consider the implications of the yes. There is value in pausing and assessing whether or not you should yes to the opportunity. When we say yes to things; do we have a limitation or insecurity that could hinder us. It is indeed good to say yes and push the boundaries. Keep in mind; when we say yes to something; we are saying no to something else.

If cow did know how him throat hole tan; or how him batty part. Him wouldn’t chance pear seed. We do not always realize our limitations. We are willing to embrace opportunities; that we tend to forget our limitations. It is good to take on something outside of you comfort zone. When we know our limitations; we can make easier choices. The decision doesn’t become can I or do I do it. It becomes should I do it or not. We can decide whether or not to take on the challenges because we know what we’re capable. Knowing your limitations makes the decision making process easier. Recognize that you have limits and there is nothing wrong; embracing your limitations and pushing past them if you think there is value in doing so.

Until next time remember "There are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view!"

Every day above ground is a good day! If you are blessed to see another day and complete it; give all the gratitude and appreciation you can. You possess the most powerful thing on this entire "space rock" also known as earth - your mind. You can shape and determine the life you will live by your thoughts and what you focus on. You are really a thought away from happiness or sorrow. 

If you create thought and power it with feeling the results will truly leave you amazed. I encourage you to purchase and read this book The Feeling Is the Secret by Neville Goddard. This powerful little book helps you unlock this power. It is my hope that as you get ready to face whatever life throws at you; remember you are more than the world wants you to think. You truly are a thought away from happiness or sorrow. 

There are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view.

Envy is a symptom of the lack mindset and scarcity mentality. This mindset limits thinking, shields skills and talents and distorts perspectives. The good news is we don''t have to want the glory and not know the story! We can write our own story and bask in that glory. To want success you have to be successful; you have to become that which you desire. You have to start with who you are now and what you have. Examine your habits and choice; are you set on the path towards success or it is destruction. Who do you associate with and is your environment nurturing. Listen to this episode to learn why being envious is a waste of energy.

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A Twitter personality (@iamannapepe) shared a powerful reminder I felt the need to share in this week's episode. "There is so much power in your spoken words today - speak words that align you with what you want to have manifested in your physical reality. Don't go into conversations which cause you to speak in misalignment". What a way to draw our attention to the power of our words and the need for self-awareness and intentional living. How deliberate and intentional are you with the words you speak? Listen to host - Shakira Moore - as she shares her own experiences and learn why you should be intentional with your words!

The  1988 Flourgon hit song "We Run Tings" is a declaration to all that "we are the masters of our fate; we control circumstances - circumstances don't control us". This song embodies a triumphant, daring, resolute spirit; it suggests that we are not a pushover and we won't take anything lying down. 

To have this kind of spirit; you must be self aware and know the difference between responding and reacting. Responding carries with it a certain level of emotional and spiritual maturity, wisdom and discernment. To react is to engage without intention; you don't pause to reflect on the choices and consequences you simply allow your emotions to take over. 

With the current state of the world there is a pervading sentiment of lack of control; we are at the mercy of our nations' government; we still live in lockdowns and curfews. It is quite easy to feel and believe we are not in control. I encourage you to change your perspective - you are in control of how you view the situation and how you will process and ultimately engage - whether you respond or react. 

So what will you decide? Will you choose to respond or react? We will be loud and proud in your declaration "we run tings tings nuh run we" will you live from moment to moment confident in the knowledge that whatever happens you will be ok?  It is my sincere hope; that as we face a new month and the rest of 2021 each of us will be encouraged and emboldened by the lyrics of the Flourgon song and we will live our lives defiantly thinking, believing and saying "WE RUN TINGS TINGS NUH RUN WE"

In this episode Shakira revisits the topic Mind Your Business. Within the Caribbean context; mind your business serves as a warning, advice or a reminder. Often times this phrase is said with some well intended tough love. Despite the intention mind your business is really solid advice. In this episode I talk about the importance of minding your business and decision making. Here are you some books that talk about the right conditions and strategies for making good decisions.

Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment by Daniel Kahneman

When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing by Daniel H. Pink

Predictably Irrational by Dan Ariely

The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates by Wes Moore

Paradox of Choice: Why More is Less by Barry Schwartz

Nudge by Richard H. Thaler

How to Decide: Simple Tools for Making Better Choices by Annie Duke

Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy Baumeister

This list is by no means exhaustive but it's definitely a solid start! I hope you are inspired by this episode and that you will endeavor to make good decisions especially when it comes to minding your business! 

Until next time remember there are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view.

This Thanksgiving is going to look a little different for some use as we continue to navigate life in this global pandemic. The air of festivity might not quite be like it was pre-pandemic but we still have a lot to be  grateful for. 

I want to share the lessons I learnt and reflected on in 2020 that still hold true this year. I encourage you to reflect on all you have gone through and acknowledge that you are still here! You are still above ground and any day above ground is a good day. So while the merriment might not be as you would like and even if it is; take a moment to bask in appreciation and gratitude. 

I hope you enjoy this episode and the reminders I share with you. I pray you too will reflect on the lessons you've learnt so far. Celebrate that you have learnt them even if they were painful.  I send you an abundance of love, peace and well wishes for the day and for the rest of this year.

Until next time remember there are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view!

Death and loss feel like a weighted blanket or a dark cloud that looms over us; if that is what we choose to see. Life for the past 19 months has been chaotic; unpredictable, mentally and emotionally demanding. We have had to really lean into our resilience to make it to this point. Revisiting the Perspective Matters is necessary as it serves to remind us that; we choose what we focus on. How we choose to look at things impact how we feel and how we face the world.

We can focus on loss or we can focus on what we still have. We can lose our hope or cling to it. We can withdraw or we can embrace life and all it offers us. Our time on this earth is short; so live your best life! Love hard; hug tighter; kiss longer! This journey will take you on a roller coaster ride; you can hang on for dear life or you can let go and surrender!

I hope each of you has a strong support system you can turn to; and you appreciate all the good things you have in this life. If you doubt this; pause and reflect on all that you have and you may be pleasantly surprised to learn how blessed you truly are! Until next time remember; there are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view.