The Peter & Tekky Show

In today’s vlog:

• Peter finally goes to the hospital for his painful mouth swelling and ulcers, and I realise what taking care of your partner actually looks like
• Why love for us sometimes means putting each other’s needs above our own, even when they insist they can handle things themselves
• Answering whether our future kids would have four dads, and why the relationship matters more than the label
• Reflecting on what makes a relationship feel secure enough that your mind doesn’t immediately jump to cheating or betrayal

In today’s vlog:- Whether the four of us could ever actually break up, when our relationship never really had an official beginning- How we went from two established couples to four boyfriends, and the conversations that made affection between everyone feel comfortable- Learning that “I’m fine” doesn’t always mean someone is fine, and why understanding a partner requires reading beyond their words- Realising my jealousy watching Peter and Joelle kiss was less about insecurity and more about feeling like I was missing out

In today’s vlog:

• Realising that hard things don’t stay hard forever — you either quit, or repetition eventually makes them easier
• Going completely back to basics at the gym after years of lifting, and relearning how to move properly
• Feeling overwhelmed writing and editing our clothing brand skits, while reminding myself that every attempt makes the next one easier
• Peter starts building his own app with AI, and I answer more questions about jealousy, affection and what our four-person relationship has taught me about people

In today’s vlog:

• Peter’s psychiatrist gives him a daily mood chart, and we start recognising the pattern between his highs and lows
• After a couple of difficult weeks, Peter suddenly has more energy and motivation again
• Spending hours on the phone with my other two boyfriends because we miss each other
• Realising how easily sales and discounts influence our spending, plus the end of our house renovations and mosquito chaos

In today’s vlog:

• Realising relationships aren’t just about receiving love — your partner also needs to be able to give it in their own way
• Why I still love holding Peter’s hand in public, and why visibility for different relationships matters
• Planning our US road trip with all three boyfriends and trying to make everyone happy with the itinerary
• Our house is still full of construction dust and mosquitoes, while we prepare for an upcoming family trip to Hanoi

In today’s vlog:

• Why some people who supported us as a gay couple turned against us when we shared our four-person relationship
• Learning to stop shaping my life around other people’s approval and becoming more comfortable being myself
• Construction turning our house into mosquito chaos, including putting a giant mosquito net over our bed
• Realising my brain works differently for creative work, and learning to give myself time to actually get into that mode

In today’s vlog:

• Why we still sleep with our original partners — comfort, habit, history, and not wanting anyone left out
• Working through creative block while writing skits for our clothing brand
• Testing fragrances for the clothes to make the unboxing experience more memorable
• Why relationships can be whatever works for the people in them, rather than following a preset template

In today’s vlog:

• What it feels like to love people freely, without automatically following the rules society taught us relationships should have
• Why our quad tries to talk through jealousy, attraction and new feelings instead of treating those feelings as something forbidden
• A broken sewage pipe and giant ulcer reminding me how easily we take good health and everyday conveniences for granted
• Planning our US trip so all four of us can fly together and squeeze out another full day together

In today’s vlog:

• Why people can reject facts and logic when accepting them would challenge the way they understand their entire world
• Dating across different cultures and belief systems, and how I sometimes become the bridge between my three boyfriends
• Why I think having a dream is more about choosing a direction than discovering one perfect purpose in life
• Our clothing brand timeline getting pushed back as samples take 15–20 days, potentially delaying our planned November launch

In today’s vlog:

• Saying goodbye to the boys knowing we probably won’t see them for another 2–2.5 months
• The biggest downside of our relationship: long distance, drifting apart between trips, and why we always need the next trip planned
• Realising this relationship is better than anything I could have imagined, despite never growing up knowing a life like this was possible
• Questioning which other parts of my life are still controlled by society’s default rules — and what else I could choose to do differently