Are you a magpie or still in your grey era? Come and tell me.

In this episode I'm introducing the Pin Board - my framework for understanding why, despite decades of feminist progress, so many of us feel more exhausted than liberated.

Picture a board with pins. For a long time they didn't move. Then feminism happened. And what we got handed was equality. Which was kind of a trick.

I explore the trad wife and soft life trend, what actually happened to the men's pin, the two very different camps that emerged, and the trans and non-binary pins fighting simply to exist on the board at all.

This one closes with three quiet questions. They might stay with you.

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