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  • Freedom From Perfectionism

    Title: “Philosophy of Play: Overcoming Perfectionism with Shelly Johnson”

    Introduction:

    • Join us for a profound episode of The Playfulife Podcast featuring Shelly Johnson, a philosopher in play, sharing her journey from perfectionism to rediscovering the joy of play.
    • Shelly reflects on her early shift from playfulness to perfectionism, leading to anxiety and discouragement in her pursuit of flawlessness.
    • Episode Highlights:

      1. Early Struggles with Perfectionism:
        • Shelly recalls her early experiences with perfectionism during piano lessons and academic pressures, impacting her joy of learning and self-image.
        • The negative impact of perfectionism on her relationship with herself and the transformation it brought in her life.
        • Rediscovering Playfulness:
          • Embracing fencing as an outlet and learning to detach from life’s seriousness, allowing curiosity and joy to reemerge.
          • Pursuing a philosophy Ph.D., adopting a playful attitude of detachment and curiosity, leading to her successful graduation.
          • Philosophy of Play:
            • Shelly delves into the philosophy of play, drawing from Aristotle’s notion of Eutrapelia and the balance between taking life too seriously and not seriously enough.
            • Exploring the primal drive for play and its role in human life and societal health.
            • Playfulness and Mindfulness:
              • Connecting playfulness with mindfulness, observing life gently and walking as a meditative practice.
              • Embracing self-compassion and recognizing worthiness as crucial elements in overcoming perfectionism.
              • Being Our Own Best Friend:
                • Shelly emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, recognizing and nurturing the seeds of goodness within us.
                • Encouraging a compassionate approach, filled with wonder, curiosity, and joy towards oneself.
                • Resource Links:

                  • Website: ShellypJohnson.com
                  • Instagram: @shelly.p.johnson
                  • Article: How I Overcame the Stress of Perfectionism by Learning to Play Again
                  • Keywords:

                    • Philosophy of play, perfectionism, rediscovering joy, mindfulness, self-compassion, human worthiness, overcoming anxiety, societal health.
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                      55 min
                    • Play Your Way Sane: Unlocking Relationship Potential through Playful Insights with Clay Drinko

                      PLAY YOUR WAY SANE!

                      Introduction:

                      • Welcome to Season 4, Episode 3 (No. 31) of The Playfulife Podcast!
                      • In this episode, we delve into the world of playfulness in relationships with educator and author Clay Drinko.
                      • Clay is the author of “Play Your Way Sane” and “Theatrical Improvisation, Consciousness, and Cognition,” exploring the intersection of improv, science, and daily life.
                      • Episode Highlights:

                        1. Playfulness in Couples:
                          • Exploring the concept of “bids for attention” in relationships, inspired by the Gottman Institute’s work.
                          • Recognizing bids as calls for connection and understanding in relationships.
                          • The significance of accepting bids for long-term relationship success.
                          • Using improvisation techniques to understand and respond to bids in real-life situations.
                          • Applying Improv Principles:
                            • Embracing the “Yes, and” approach to acknowledge and build upon ideas instead of ignoring or rejecting them.
                            • Cultivating curiosity through open-ended questions and being receptive to understanding rather than fixing issues.
                            • Translating improvisation principles into real-life interactions at work and home.
                            • Teaching and Learning:
                              • Clay’s approach to teaching, focusing on student-centered, inquiry-based, and uninhibited learning experiences.
                              • The importance of listening in teaching and engaging students by sparking curiosity.
                              • Rejecting scripted lesson plans in favor of adapting to students’ needs and questions.
                              • Play Your Way Sane:
                                • Exploring Clay’s book and its approach to feeling grounded, less anxious, and more present through simple fun exercises.
                                • Embracing mindfulness through playful activities to access calmness and shift away from a critical mindset.
                                • Practicing acceptance, listening, and owning mistakes to enhance well-being and relationships.
                                • Personal Favorites:
                                  • Clay’s current favorite book, “Pure Color” by Sheila Heti, and the film “Dancer in the Dark.”
                                  • Encouraging a balanced approach to self-improvement, emphasizing progress over perfection.
                                  • Resource Links:

                                    • Instagram: @Playyourwaysane
                                    • Website: Playyourwaysane.com
                                    • LinkedIn: Clay Drinko
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                                      1 hr 25 min
                                    • Unlocking Human Potential Through Play and Learning

                                      Title: Unlocking Human Potential Through Play and Learning

                                      Introduction:

                                      • Welcome to another inspiring episode of The Playfulife Podcast!
                                        • Today, we have the pleasure of hosting Josette Luvmour, a lifelong advocate for human development, transformative learning, and the power of play.
                                        • Josette and Ba Luvmour have been exploring life together since 1979, and Josette specializes in various fields, including family relationships, consciousness studies, and nurturing the growth of both adults and children.In addition to her consulting practice at Luvmour Consulting, LLC, Josette has authored numerous journal articles, five eBooks, and book chapters as well as co-authored six print books with a focus on building relationships with children that promote optimal well-being. Josette teaches graduate courses at Antioch University in the Individualized Master of Arts (IMA) Program and has been educating adults since 1992. Her work pioneers how adult and child grow together.Josette Luvmour is honored that her book, Grow Together, Parenting as a Path to Well-Being, Wisdom, and Joy, has earned the prestigious Mom’s Choice Award®.
                                        • Episode Highlights:

                                          A Journey of Growth:

                                          • Josette’s remarkable journey alongside Ba Luvmour for over four decades.
                                            • Her expertise in human development, transformative learning, and sustainable family relationships.
                                            • The Importance of Play in Early Education:

                                              • Josette’s focus on natural learning for children and the vital role of play.
                                                • The brain development that occurs through play, even in higher education.
                                                  • Encouraging children to explore relationships and their imaginative worlds.
                                                  • Guiding Children’s Play:

                                                    • Understanding that until age 7 or 8, children aren’t interested in strict rules; they create their world imaginatively.
                                                      • How children naturally transition to more structured play with rules and boundaries as they grow.
                                                        • The importance of adults actively engaging in play and learning from children.
                                                        • Benefits of Play:

                                                          • Different types of play, including dramatic play and profound play, and how they shape thinking abilities.
                                                            • Exploring the principles of win-win games and co-creating games.
                                                            • Adults and Play:

                                                              • Reflecting on how adults who played in their childhood develop a strong sense of self and trust in relationships.
                                                                • Being open to challenge and growth, not overly invested in fixed identities.
                                                                • Play and Learning Integration:

                                                                  • Bridging academic knowledge with real-life experiences and human needs.
                                                                    • Understanding the connection between play, mental health, and overall well-being.
                                                                    • Debunking Play Myths:

                                                                      • Challenging myths like “children should be seen and not heard.”
                                                                        • Embracing mistakes as opportunities for creative exploration.
                                                                        • Resource Links:

                                                                          • Josette Luvmour’s Website
                                                                          • Transformational Learning Foundation
                                                                          • Josette’s award-winning book: [Grow Together, Parenting as a Path to Well-Being, Wisdom, and Joy]
                                                                          • Keywords:

                                                                            • Human development, transformative learning, family relationships, consciousness studies, brain development, imaginative play, structured play, win-win games, mental health, play myths, child development, well-being.
                                                                            • Additional Information:

                                                                              • Explore more about Josette Luvmour’s work and resources on her website.
                                                                                • Continue your journey of transformative learning and play with the Transformational Learning Foundation.
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                                                                                  46 min
                                                                                • Get Your Life Back with Play

                                                                                  Welcome back to The Playfulife Podcast after a two-year pause!

                                                                                  The Playfulife Podcast explores inspiring conversations around play to infuse more joy into your life and relationships, allowing you to savour life fully.

                                                                                  Today’s guest is Krystal Quagliara, I was googling my podcast and found she had one with the same name! I reached out and here we are together talking about play.

                                                                                  Krystal is a playfulness expert in the health and wellness coaching industry. She’s able to help her clients feel ALIVE (Actively Living in Vitality Everyday) and live a life of freedom. She meets them where they are because she understands that none of this comes easy, as her personal health is a choice she has to make daily.

                                                                                  Krystal is also the author of The Playful Journal and the host of her own: The Playful Life podcast. Krystal’s coaching is more than just nutritional plans and exercise. It’s life coaching that incorporates stoic virtues of wisdom, courage, moderation, and social justice with all components working symbiotically.

                                                                                  We delve into the concept of play and its transformative power in our lives.


                                                                                  Episode Highlights:

                                                                                  1. Ingredients of a Playfulife:
                                                                                    • Exploring play as a way of life.
                                                                                    • Embracing mistakes and learning through play, much like children do.
                                                                                    • The Joy of Being a New Mom:
                                                                                      • Discussing the pure joy and innocence of parenthood.
                                                                                      • Transitioning from seriousness to fully embodied playfulness.
                                                                                      • Keyword: Parenting
                                                                                      • The Scale of Playfulness:
                                                                                        • Examining the spectrum of playfulness, from rigid and perfectionist to joyful, open, and curious.
                                                                                        • Keyword: Self-Improvement
                                                                                        • Awakening to Play:
                                                                                          • Krystal’s personal journey from a “Zombie Life” to a vibrant, playful existence.
                                                                                          • Letting go of expectations and recovering from codependency.
                                                                                          • Keywords: Codependency, Personal Transformation
                                                                                          • Steps to a Playful Life:
                                                                                            • Introducing the “Perfection Game” emphasizing progress over perfection.
                                                                                            • Incorporating play into a healthy lifestyle to boost vitality and overall well-being.
                                                                                            • Keywords: Healthy Lifestyle Choices, Wellness Coaching
                                                                                            • Discovering Joy:
                                                                                              • Exploring the sources of joy and the role they play in our lives.
                                                                                              • Krystal’s favorite book and film recommendations.
                                                                                              • Keywords: Happiness, Book Recommendations, Film Recommendations
                                                                                              • Resource Links:

                                                                                                • [Link to the full podcast episode](Insert Podcast Episode Link)
                                                                                                • Krystal Quagliara’s website: alivein2023.com
                                                                                                • Krystal Quagliara on Instagram: instagram.com/krystal.quagliara
                                                                                                • Anthony’s website: anthonytrahair.com
                                                                                                • Anthony on Instagram: instagram.com/theplayfulnesscatalyst
                                                                                                • Giocosamente Festival: giocosamentefestival.eu
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                                                                                                  Stay tuned for more inspiring episodes on The Playfulife Podcast.

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                                                                                                  40 min
                                                                                                • Bring Play back into Elite Sports

                                                                                                  Cathy Salit on Play, Sports and Life.

                                                                                                  Bring Play Back into Elite Sports Podcast Show Notes [55mins]

                                                                                                  This podcast is absolute gold!

                                                                                                  Learn how to reach your goals through play and fun. We are all performers suggests Cathy. It’s great to have directions to do something new.

                                                                                                  Cathy Salit is a performance activist, social entrepreneur, jazz singer, speaker, executive coach, and theatrical improviser. She’s been a community organizer and radical educator since she was 13 years old, when she dropped out of school and started her own highschool in New York.

                                                                                                  Cathy is an incredible powerhouse and great supporter of Play in raising the quality of our lives.

                                                                                                  I’m very happy to have her on The PlayfuLife Podcast today.

                                                                                                  – I enjoyed your recent article “It’s Time to Bring Play Back Into Elite Sports: I’m With Simone.”

                                                                                                  – Where did the fun go in competitive sports?

                                                                                                  It went away! Pressures and what it takes to be that incredible an athlete. There’s a lot in those environments that isn’t healthy.

                                                                                                  Kathy talks about simple alternatives to create a space to bring teams together, they played!

                                                                                                  We need play to make it through the difficult times. Please inject some play into competitive sports to make them more livable!

                                                                                                  Play and improvisation.

                                                                                                  Improvisation is connecting to our surrounding and literally being able to play with it. We are generally terrified of improvisation! Improvisation is freedom.

                                                                                                  – What does being able to let go mean to you Cathy? How to develop a greater ability to improvise and how can it improve our lives?

                                                                                                  – What is the power of improvisation “Off Stage”?

                                                                                                  We go deeper into Embracing Not Knowing. Jumping without a net, speaking without a script. Accept the offers that come at you.

                                                                                                  What is the price of Always Knowing?

                                                                                                  How to cultivate friendships is strongly connected to our ability to play.

                                                                                                  Our job in improvisation is to make our partner look good.

                                                                                                  At the beginning of the global pandemic you launched the Global Play Brigade.
                                                                                                  What have been the greatest lessons from this project?

                                                                                                  – Giving more value to play can raise the quality of our individual lives. The ripple effect is much greater and play increases social connection and can challenge many existing paradigms. Could you talk about this?

                                                                                                  Some people say how do you dare to bring play in challenging situations? Kathy responds how can we NOT dare to bring in play? Play is where we find our humanity and unless we can give express humanity in new and different ways we are not going to find new solutions. We are not going to create new possibilities.

                                                                                                  – You wrote a book Cathy “Performance Breakthrough: A Radical Approach to Success at Work”. LINK

                                                                                                  What brought you to write it and what is it’s core message?

                                                                                                  Rapid fire round

                                                                                                  – Can Play save the world?

                                                                                                  – Fav 1 or 2 books on play and impro?

                                                                                                  – Fav playful film? Being There – Peter Sellers // Mel Brookes – To Be or Not to Be

                                                                                                  – What do you do to get you in a playful state?

                                                                                                  – Advice for Cathy at 20?

                                                                                                  – New projects?

                                                                                                  – Where to find you? www.cathysalit.com — Global Play Brigade

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                                                                                                  56 min
                                                                                                • Writing Playfully

                                                                                                  Writing Playfully with Bradley Charbonneau [36mins]

                                                                                                  Very happy to have Bradley Charbonneau on the show today!

                                                                                                  Bradley is author of 31 books, is a writing coach and author of many programs for authors such as Write Your Worst Book Ever! I met Bradley at the Playful Creative Summit and liked his approach so much I joined in with his program!

                                                                                                  It was lots of fun and I also wrote a new book, more on that another time.

                                                                                                  Bradley tells us how his playful approach is perfect for anyone with writers block and takes the pressure out of being “perfect” to write with a more authentic voice.

                                                                                                  Perfectionism leads us to procrastinate and takes years to not finish a book! If you’ll like to take the frustration out of writing and have more fun with it join us for this enlightening conversation.

                                                                                                  Its very important… to have fun with it!

                                                                                                  Your best work comes from a lighter place, when you are in the flow. When you are not afraid of failure… and that is the state of play.

                                                                                                  https://bradleycharbonneau.com/

                                                                                                  – Find the Worst Book Ever 10 day course here:

                                                                                                  https://u.repossible.com/p/wbe

                                                                                                  Want to live more playfully?

                                                                                                  Life Coaching

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                                                                                                  37 min
                                                                                                • The Science of Humour and Laughter

                                                                                                  The Science of Humour and Laughter

                                                                                                  Today’s guest is Stephanie Davies, founder and CEO of Laughology based in the UK.

                                                                                                  Stephanie is one of the UK’s leading voices in the psychology of laughter and humour.

                                                                                                  She has applied her work in a wide variety of settings, from dealing with complex public and mental health issues to building teams in high profile organisations. She is a stand-up comedian and has worked with Patch Adams exploring the relationship between health, humour, community and the arts. Stephanie is author of the book “Laughology” that we talk more about in the show.

                                                                                                  Stephany’s mission is to get us all to laugh more.

                                                                                                  There are lots of great take aways on in this episode of The Playfulife Podcast.

                                                                                                  Find out:

                                                                                                  What is laughter? What triggers your laughter?
                                                                                                  What is humour? How to boost our sense of humour?

                                                                                                  What is the role of laughter and humour in mental health research? Steph tells us a great story about this.

                                                                                                  Discover your inner child.

                                                                                                  Activate the Power of a smile.

                                                                                                  Find more about Laughology’s F.L.I.P model: Focus Language Imagination Pattern Breaking for bring in more humour and laughter in our lives with all the associated benefits.

                                                                                                  Curiosity is so important!!!! Not just curious but Playfully Curious!

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                                                                                                  http://www.laughology.co.uk

                                                                                                  Also check out this podcast with Katie Rose White

                                                                                                  And Holly Stoppit

                                                                                                  Want more fun and fulfillment in your life? Get Anthony as your a life coach!

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                                                                                                  45 min
                                                                                                • What Play Persona are You?

                                                                                                  What Play Persona are you?

                                                                                                  Inspiring Philosophical Conversation on Play with Ben Ross.

                                                                                                  Ben Ross writes novels, coaches and helps adults to play, guided by his spirit animal, the flying raccoon. He lives beside a forest on the edge of London.

                                                                                                  Ben’s definition of Play:

                                                                                                  “An attitude of Serious Attention applied to something that others consider trivial or nonsensical”.
                                                                                                  In this episode he unpacks this for us.

                                                                                                  We all have a unique way of playing. We all play in our own way.

                                                                                                  Something may be fun for you though and not for another.

                                                                                                  I met Ben Ross at the Counterplay Festival in Denmark in 2018. He has an inspiring blog about play and has put together a great quiz for anyone to find out there Play Persona.

                                                                                                  Find out your Play Persona here: http://www.flyingraccoon.com/play-persona-test/

                                                                                                  Ben has quite a deep understanding of Play and illustrates the theme of THINGNESS with us (23′).

                                                                                                  More than giving a character to an object its realising that if you want to be really good at anything while enjoying your life you’re going to have to start considering the objects around you a bit more! Not just what you think they are but all their qualities and possible uses!

                                                                                                  I’m going to add here that a great GRATITUDE practice is to understand how an object came into existence, where it was built…

                                                                                                  Great tips on how to find your own special way of playing.

                                                                                                  Ben recommends:

                                                                                                  Play Anything by Ian Bogost
                                                                                                  Wonderland : How Play Made the Modern World (2016) by Steven Johnson

                                                                                                  Anthony talked about the book, What do you say when you talk to yourself? by Shad Helmstetter

                                                                                                  If you like the philosophy take on this episode check out the chat with Maaike the Playful Philosopher

                                                                                                  Find more about Ben here:

                                                                                                  http://www.flyingraccoon.com
                                                                                                  http://benzross.com/

                                                                                                  We end with Ben’s favourite Zoom game that he learned from Willam Zackwood.

                                                                                                  Thanks for listening.

                                                                                                  If you enjoyed please leave a review and share!
                                                                                                  See you next time.

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                                                                                                  51 min
                                                                                                • Playful Design

                                                                                                  Playful Design with Alyea Sandovar

                                                                                                  Dr. Alyea Sandovar is a gamification and play consultant at Tint Hue. She helps established business owners create deeper engagement for their online programs and turn clients into raving fans through gamification. She is also the co-founder of the Playful Creative Summit. A free summit dedicated to adding more play and creativity to the world which launches every year in April. She has a PhD is in Game Production, a Masters in Psychology, a Masters in Human Organizational Systems, and a Bachelor’s in Public Relations and Communication. She has experience with academic institutions, non profits, game studios, corporations and start-ups.

                                                                                                  She was inspired to get into games through games she played with her Abuelita Lela in Colombia. Later as a psychotherapist she saw the power of play and games to transform the lives of her clients which led her to her studies in video games.

                                                                                                  She believes creating playful products should not be a headache. She considers herself a spiritual being, so she aims to bring love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and determination, to every client project. She loves God, cocoa drinks, traveling, dancing and is a bit obsessed with UFOs and Sci-Fi.

                                                                                                  Social media links:

                                                                                                  IG: https://www.instagram.com/tint.hue/

                                                                                                  Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyeasandovar/

                                                                                                  Twitter: https://twitter.com/alyeasandovar

                                                                                                  Websites: Playfulcreativesummit.com

                                                                                                  Business website; Tinthue.com

                                                                                                  Gamefication


                                                                                                  Gamefication builds relationships which engages customers with your offers. Generally we think of gamefication as leader boards, badges and points… there’s more to it though.
                                                                                                  Gamefication is combining ART and SCIENCE. Especially behavioral science. It’s creating a more interactive experience and building a relationship.

                                                                                                  There is no “one size fits all” each product will need its one approach.

                                                                                                  Essentially if your company doesn’t look after its customers or it’s not really doing a good job. Gamefication isn’t going to do much.

                                                                                                  It will just amplify what you do.

                                                                                                  Do something good and it will amplify this!

                                                                                                  Designing a more playfulife

                                                                                                  This is core to our work so we asked Alyea about this.

                                                                                                  – Begin the day with a playful practice.
                                                                                                  – Find out your play personality (Stuart Brown)
                                                                                                  – When you base your play practice on your play personality its so different!
                                                                                                  – 3-5 things depending on your available time.
                                                                                                  – Play with your puppy, cuddle kids, watch comedy, movement, reading, something non related to work life.

                                                                                                  Find the things you wish you had time for everyday and GO FOR IT!

                                                                                                  Reward yourself!

                                                                                                  Playfulness gives us an incredible centre, we become fully alive and enter the state of FLOW.

                                                                                                  There comes a feeling of I’m going to be OK – Inner security.
                                                                                                  We awaken trust and feeling of faith in life.

                                                                                                  Alyea organises together with David Chislett the PLAYFUL AND CREATIVE SUMMIT 21-26 April 2021.

                                                                                                  45 speakers, designers, coaches, creative souls…
                                                                                                  Registration opens on the 15th of March.
                                                                                                  https://playfulcreativesummit.com/

                                                                                                  You will find our host Anthony Trahair at the conference!

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                                                                                                  53 min
                                                                                                • Lilà & The Spark Guy

                                                                                                  Very happy to Have Leif Hansen on the podcast.

                                                                                                  Leif is a playful soul. He knows the transformative power of play and has found a clear way of expressing this to a more general public. (That, as we know, puts play to the end of the day if at all) Leif is a playful facilitator, has held “Lila retreats” that help people choose a better way of playing out their lives, he is now helping businesses bring out the best of themselves to work from a place of Joy.

                                                                                                  The aspect of Lilà was something I was very interested in talking to Leif. How do we play out our lives?

                                                                                                  We cover lots of interesting group including some insights on bringing playfulness to the corporate sector.

                                                                                                  Leif has offered Playful Life Podcast listeners a free copy of his “LILA (Divine Play) e-Cards” —request them here   Join Leif and other playful, heart-led visionary catalysts like yourself at TheSparkLife.org -a collective for those interested in growing enriching relationships, meaningful work, deep well-being, courageous creativity & lifelong learning. Or just jump in for the new “Playformation: Test Drive the Future” class series -first drink is free!”

                                                                                                  Like many people that have been on the show there is a desire to bring the freedom, creativity, connection, silliness, being in nature and the magic from summer camps to the rest of our lives. If you are going to spend 40-60+ hours a week you’d like it to be meaningful and enjoyable, ideally playful.

                                                                                                  There is a false dichotomy between PLAY and WORK.

                                                                                                  Work is FOCUS on the ends. So that I can have…..
                                                                                                  Play FOCUSES on the process, on the MEANS.
                                                                                                  Both can be creative, adaptive and playful.

                                                                                                  So we can go to PLWERK – Play-learn-work or Playformation – transformation through play.

                                                                                                  – when you are playful you do better work.

                                                                                                  – when you bring more commitment to your play you are going to enjoy it more.

                                                                                                  LILà – Divine Play – we are the entertainment for the gods or we are the gods in our own play.

                                                                                                  — A paradigm of life is best lived as play.

                                                                                                  Life is lots of suffering – seriousness – joy and Play – embracing the whole.

                                                                                                  In a self marriage ceremony Leif vowed to be 100% serious and 100% not serious recognizing that life is a joke.

                                                                                                  We are HUM – humble – human and humus! The divine mess :)

                                                                                                  We are fixated on our story of reality – let’s knock that story down!

                                                                                                  Build up things and knock them down.

                                                                                                  Reality is WEIRD! What the heck is this thing that we are part of?-

                                                                                                  Lilà takes the idea of play to the ULTIMATE extreme.

                                                                                                  That all of this multi dimensional universe, existence you could enter into it more fully through play and as seeing it as play.

                                                                                                  Curiosity going into wonder – wonderosity!

                                                                                                  AWKWARD IS THE NEW FUTURE.

                                                                                                  We also went deep into Shyness.

                                                                                                  Quote: “The truly great advances of this generation will be made by those who can make outrageous connections. And only a mind that knows how to play can do that”. Nagle Jackson

                                                                                                  Book: Why Right Brainers Will Rule the World: Dan Pink

                                                                                                  5 points for Leif’s work on https://www.thesparklife.org/

                                                                                                  Meaningful Work
                                                                                                  Enriching Relationships
                                                                                                  Life Long Learning
                                                                                                  Deep Well Being
                                                                                                  Courageous Creativity and Play

                                                                                                  From thesparklife website:

                                                                                                   

                                                                                                  “We may not have it all together,
                                                                                                  but together we can have it all”

                                                                                                  We are a professional development, lifestyle and personal growth oriented collective primarily made up of emerging facilitators, teachers, coaches, presenters, leaders and other visionary catalysts who are passionate about fully enjoying our lives while engaging in meaningful service to others.

                                                                                                  89% of us love travel, 93% of us love chocolate, 76% of us have a mindfulness practice, 67% of us dance in our underwear, and 1 guy only showers weekly.

                                                                                                  We still love him.

                                                                                                  We’re committed to igniting your life around five fundamentally rewarding and vitalizing goals:


                                                                                                  You can likely imagine the delight and vitality experienced in manifesting these five goals and how it naturally spills over into bringing more success, fun, caring, and creative magic to the people you serve.  That said, these goals may sound a little lofty or too abstract. If so, click here to ground them in reality or better understand what we mean.

                                                                                                  Is achieving those bold beautiful goals attractive and aligned with your own vision and values? If so, please consider joining us, we’d love to help you level up and to add your unique magic to our mix! Read on or choose a plan at the bottom of the page.

                                                                                                  Why do so many people want to achieve these kinds of goals and yet barely move forward?

                                                                                                  Trying to run your own business or professional practice can be extremely liberating, fulfilling and meaningful, yet it can also be discouraging, lonely, stressful and full of overwhelming challenges.

                                                                                                  In addition, as a change agent you’ve likely found that it can be tricky to practice what you preach regarding living a robust, balanced and fulfilling life.  (If so, don’t worry, it’s way more common than you might think!)

                                                                                                  We believe that there are three primary challenges usually responsible for a lack of life and business momentum.  We’ve built the Spark Life collective as a solution to each of them. You may find that you relate to 1 or all 3…

                                                                                                  1. You’ve been trying to do things primarily by yourself, yet humans have evolved as incredibly social creatures. This is unfortunately because there is so much support available to enter or create!
                                                                                                  2. You’re missing a structure of support, a regular rhythm of reliable opportunities for working, learning & enjoying your creative potential.
                                                                                                  3. You’ve become disconnected from your deepest WHYs, the intrinsic motivation and vision(s) that make life and work worthwhile.
                                                                                                  4. While nobody ever feels a 100% daily life-satisfaction, and sometimes life can be extremely challenging and disappointing, it is essential (and feels awesome) to be part of a caring community where you can receive (and give) support regarding staying resilient, aligned and activated in moving towards your most ideal life.   It is equally essential to have a structure of supportive opportunities -classes, coaching, co-working, creative content, celebrations and more -to help keep you actively moving forward towards your dreams.

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