Divorce already takes so much from children. They don’t need the extra weight of conflict. Choosing calm over arguments isn’t weakness—it’s strength. It shows kids they’re safe, steady, and loved, no matter what.

Why it’s important:In Earned, Not Given, I share how reacting in anger only created more confusion for my children. Learning to respond with calm gave them stability during chaos. Parents need to know: peace is the greatest gift you can give your kids after divorce.

📖 Earned, Not Given is coming soon.

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