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This episode is Ariel’s third on empowered dating. Do you need to know what you’re looking for? Do you want to get clarity? Do you want to learn about different dating choices? Have you done monogamy or vanilla relationships and what to try something else? Ariel talks about these things but be warned, some of the content and conversations might be triggering if you’re used to a very conservative dating lifestyle.
Clear negative energy connections you experience while dating with Ariel's Violet Flame Relationship Clearing Practice. Ariel uses this and other energy medicine tools to clear negative cording attachments.
If you share this tool, please acknowledge me as its creator, especially if you do this on social media or in writing.
Violet Flame Relationship Clearing by Ariel F. Hubbard, www.arielhubbard.com
I am, I am, I am a Sovereign Being.
I choose the energies that are in my field.
I choose the energies of Peace, Light, and Unconditional Love, and so it is.
(Say or think the name of the person you are releasing 3 times)
At this time, I choose to release my energy from your field
Bringing it back to me through the Violet Flame
Where it is cleansed, blessed and purified. I reclaim my life force energy and my power. And so it is.
Notice whether you feel a release physically, energetically, emotionally or spiritually.
(Say or think their name 3 times)
At this time, I choose to release your energy from my field
Sending it back to you through the Violet Flame
Where it is cleansed, blessed and purified.
To do with as you will. I release it to you with love. And so it is.
Notice whether you feel a release physically, energetically, emotionally or spiritually. After which process did you feel more of a shift? That will indicate where there was a stronger cording attachment. You may need to do this several times if the cording is strong. Some people may seek to re-engage with you once you have released cording—be prepared and stay disengaged. Or re-engage, but in a way that honours your boundaries.
Urban Dictionary is an app to help you understand current slang
Ariel's upcoming book is The Empowered Woman's Guide to Online Dating (see pre-order link, below.)
He’s Just Not That into You, by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
Situationships as a form of dating: https://apple.news/AMjIIFDO5St2EQ2Jxc9XFew
For more information on Tantra, see Sexual Secrets by Nik Douglas and Penny Slinger. This is a classic, extensively researched, seminal tantric text based on primary source research translated from Chinese, Japanese and Sanskrit by the authors.
Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas gives practical exercises for people to connect with tantric energy.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Women are the essence and expression of the divine feminine archetype and there are a lot of expressions of that. And yes, everyone has masculine and feminine energy inside of them, but women are the essence of the feminine. There are different types of archetypes: the maiden, the mother, the crone, the creator, the sex goddess, wise women. You have those qualities within you whether you’re sweet and kind or criticising or manifesting and men, whether they’re aware of it or not, are attracted to your sexual and spiritual energy. When you fate online men are trying to access this energy and they often do it by asking sexual questions.
- There are three groups of men: Men who want casual sex, men who want relationships, and guys who don’t know what they want – these aren’t guys you want to waste your time on. Cross those people off your list, your time is precious. The men who want quick access to your sexual energy are taking shortcuts by skipping dating steps. If it makes you feel nervous or afraid that’s because it’s not safe because they haven’t taken the time or effort to build up trust.
- Once we’re older and we exit a relationship (long- or short-term), it leaves us wondering what’s important in life. You may have wondered if all the effort you put into your past relationships was worth it, or you might feel that you didn’t get what you were looking for, or you might want something totally different. Give yourself permission to open yourself up to different possibilities. Life now is different to life in your teens and twenties and your desires and needs are different as well.
- Most people have grown up experiencing vanilla sex or relationships and they get into a rut where they do the same kinds of behaviours over and over again. They expect their partner to be monogamous and they may rarely or never actually talk about sex or their fantasies. This is one of the many reasons why relationships end. Men and some women do want variety and sometimes they get bored of the same persona and the same actions over and over again, not just sex but relationship actions too.
BEST MOMENTS
“Men have the spiritual energy of being a director or a builder, women are creators and gestators of ideas and men take and direct the energy that the feminine gives them and make it come into physical existence.”
“If you’re looking for casual sex, you need to be treated with respect with that even.”
“Just because you might have been monogamous for years does not mean you have to have the same kind of sex or relationship life you had before. This is an ideal time to look at and explore other options.”
“Kinks are a way of experiencing sexuality or arousal from something that’s not normally considered sexual or sexy. Tantra is a way of working with sacred sexual energy (with yourself or a partner) to open up kundalini flow and your chakras to expand your spiritual consciousness.”
ABOUT THE HOST
Ariel is a Licensed Massage Therapist, Registered Clinical Hypnotherapist, Reiki Master, Empath and Psychic who has been involved in holistic healing since 1988. She is also an educator, speaker, author and mentor for empaths, spiritual seekers and medical professionals. To reach Ariel, go to www.arielhubbard.com, where you will be able to contact her directly. Please let her know you heard her on the podcast and the assistance you need or question you have.
Website: www.arielhubbard.com
Podcast: Woman Power Zone on all major platforms
LinkedIn: @arielhubbard
IG: @arielhubbard
Facebook: @HubbardEducationGroup
YT: @arielhubbard
CH: @arielhubbard
Pinterest: https://pin.it/6Z6RozS
Pre-order form for Ariel's educational, hilarious and spicy dating book:
The Empowered Woman's Guide to Online Dating: Set Your BS Tolerance to Zero
https://eworder.replynow.ontraport.net/
Access to the Mindset Reset Club:
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By Ariel HubbardThis episode is Ariel’s third on empowered dating. Do you need to know what you’re looking for? Do you want to get clarity? Do you want to learn about different dating choices? Have you done monogamy or vanilla relationships and what to try something else? Ariel talks about these things but be warned, some of the content and conversations might be triggering if you’re used to a very conservative dating lifestyle.
Clear negative energy connections you experience while dating with Ariel's Violet Flame Relationship Clearing Practice. Ariel uses this and other energy medicine tools to clear negative cording attachments.
If you share this tool, please acknowledge me as its creator, especially if you do this on social media or in writing.
Violet Flame Relationship Clearing by Ariel F. Hubbard, www.arielhubbard.com
I am, I am, I am a Sovereign Being.
I choose the energies that are in my field.
I choose the energies of Peace, Light, and Unconditional Love, and so it is.
(Say or think the name of the person you are releasing 3 times)
At this time, I choose to release my energy from your field
Bringing it back to me through the Violet Flame
Where it is cleansed, blessed and purified. I reclaim my life force energy and my power. And so it is.
Notice whether you feel a release physically, energetically, emotionally or spiritually.
(Say or think their name 3 times)
At this time, I choose to release your energy from my field
Sending it back to you through the Violet Flame
Where it is cleansed, blessed and purified.
To do with as you will. I release it to you with love. And so it is.
Notice whether you feel a release physically, energetically, emotionally or spiritually. After which process did you feel more of a shift? That will indicate where there was a stronger cording attachment. You may need to do this several times if the cording is strong. Some people may seek to re-engage with you once you have released cording—be prepared and stay disengaged. Or re-engage, but in a way that honours your boundaries.
Urban Dictionary is an app to help you understand current slang
Ariel's upcoming book is The Empowered Woman's Guide to Online Dating (see pre-order link, below.)
He’s Just Not That into You, by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
Situationships as a form of dating: https://apple.news/AMjIIFDO5St2EQ2Jxc9XFew
For more information on Tantra, see Sexual Secrets by Nik Douglas and Penny Slinger. This is a classic, extensively researched, seminal tantric text based on primary source research translated from Chinese, Japanese and Sanskrit by the authors.
Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas gives practical exercises for people to connect with tantric energy.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Women are the essence and expression of the divine feminine archetype and there are a lot of expressions of that. And yes, everyone has masculine and feminine energy inside of them, but women are the essence of the feminine. There are different types of archetypes: the maiden, the mother, the crone, the creator, the sex goddess, wise women. You have those qualities within you whether you’re sweet and kind or criticising or manifesting and men, whether they’re aware of it or not, are attracted to your sexual and spiritual energy. When you fate online men are trying to access this energy and they often do it by asking sexual questions.
- There are three groups of men: Men who want casual sex, men who want relationships, and guys who don’t know what they want – these aren’t guys you want to waste your time on. Cross those people off your list, your time is precious. The men who want quick access to your sexual energy are taking shortcuts by skipping dating steps. If it makes you feel nervous or afraid that’s because it’s not safe because they haven’t taken the time or effort to build up trust.
- Once we’re older and we exit a relationship (long- or short-term), it leaves us wondering what’s important in life. You may have wondered if all the effort you put into your past relationships was worth it, or you might feel that you didn’t get what you were looking for, or you might want something totally different. Give yourself permission to open yourself up to different possibilities. Life now is different to life in your teens and twenties and your desires and needs are different as well.
- Most people have grown up experiencing vanilla sex or relationships and they get into a rut where they do the same kinds of behaviours over and over again. They expect their partner to be monogamous and they may rarely or never actually talk about sex or their fantasies. This is one of the many reasons why relationships end. Men and some women do want variety and sometimes they get bored of the same persona and the same actions over and over again, not just sex but relationship actions too.
BEST MOMENTS
“Men have the spiritual energy of being a director or a builder, women are creators and gestators of ideas and men take and direct the energy that the feminine gives them and make it come into physical existence.”
“If you’re looking for casual sex, you need to be treated with respect with that even.”
“Just because you might have been monogamous for years does not mean you have to have the same kind of sex or relationship life you had before. This is an ideal time to look at and explore other options.”
“Kinks are a way of experiencing sexuality or arousal from something that’s not normally considered sexual or sexy. Tantra is a way of working with sacred sexual energy (with yourself or a partner) to open up kundalini flow and your chakras to expand your spiritual consciousness.”
ABOUT THE HOST
Ariel is a Licensed Massage Therapist, Registered Clinical Hypnotherapist, Reiki Master, Empath and Psychic who has been involved in holistic healing since 1988. She is also an educator, speaker, author and mentor for empaths, spiritual seekers and medical professionals. To reach Ariel, go to www.arielhubbard.com, where you will be able to contact her directly. Please let her know you heard her on the podcast and the assistance you need or question you have.
Website: www.arielhubbard.com
Podcast: Woman Power Zone on all major platforms
LinkedIn: @arielhubbard
IG: @arielhubbard
Facebook: @HubbardEducationGroup
YT: @arielhubbard
CH: @arielhubbard
Pinterest: https://pin.it/6Z6RozS
Pre-order form for Ariel's educational, hilarious and spicy dating book:
The Empowered Woman's Guide to Online Dating: Set Your BS Tolerance to Zero
https://eworder.replynow.ontraport.net/
Access to the Mindset Reset Club: