The more time we spend praying and relying on the Holy Spirit, the more opportunities we will have to use discernment. When we operate in humility, we are more likely to discern as we would be slow to speak and slow to make decisions that would impact ourselves and others. “And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment, that you may approve the things that are excellent, that you may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ,” Philippians‬ ‭1:9-10‬ ‭