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What if the biggest problem in kids ministry isn’t behavior—but how we interpret behavior?
In this Season 2 kickoff episode of Sunday School Junkie, we dive deep into the principle of assuming positive intent—a leadership mindset that has the power to reduce conflict, strengthen teams, and radically improve how we minister to children, parents, and volunteers.
The episode opens with a real-life, laugh-out-loud story about a grandmother who assumed friendliness instead of frustration—and how that simple perspective shift exposes a much bigger truth about human nature.
From there, we explore:
why our brains naturally assume the worst,
how fatigue and past hurt distort interpretation,
and why Scripture consistently points us toward seeing the heart before reacting to behavior.
Using powerful biblical examples—including Hannah and Eli, Samuel and Eliab, Zacchaeus, the Samaritan woman, Mary and Martha, and Peter walking on water—we see how God responds to intent, not just action.
There’s also a fun mid-episode Twist segment, honest humor imagining “What if Jesus was like us?”, and highly practical application for:
handling challenging behavior in kids,
leading volunteers with grace,
and building a healthier, more Christlike ministry culture.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated, misunderstood, or worn down in ministry—this episode will reframe how you see people and remind you why grace must always come first.
By James Pelletier5
44 ratings
What if the biggest problem in kids ministry isn’t behavior—but how we interpret behavior?
In this Season 2 kickoff episode of Sunday School Junkie, we dive deep into the principle of assuming positive intent—a leadership mindset that has the power to reduce conflict, strengthen teams, and radically improve how we minister to children, parents, and volunteers.
The episode opens with a real-life, laugh-out-loud story about a grandmother who assumed friendliness instead of frustration—and how that simple perspective shift exposes a much bigger truth about human nature.
From there, we explore:
why our brains naturally assume the worst,
how fatigue and past hurt distort interpretation,
and why Scripture consistently points us toward seeing the heart before reacting to behavior.
Using powerful biblical examples—including Hannah and Eli, Samuel and Eliab, Zacchaeus, the Samaritan woman, Mary and Martha, and Peter walking on water—we see how God responds to intent, not just action.
There’s also a fun mid-episode Twist segment, honest humor imagining “What if Jesus was like us?”, and highly practical application for:
handling challenging behavior in kids,
leading volunteers with grace,
and building a healthier, more Christlike ministry culture.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated, misunderstood, or worn down in ministry—this episode will reframe how you see people and remind you why grace must always come first.