Learning to live without deep conversations isn't as bad as you would think. Sure, we would like to believe that we could openly talk about our feelings, current events, or favorite pleasures. But, when dealing with a narc, it is a lost cause. You will just end up regretting it. We don't have to fill the silence. We learn that silence is comforting. We can not continue to ignore the fact that we are not living in a normal situation. Save your conversation for friends or family. Find any way you can to avoid conversations with the narcissist. Stop fueling their gaslighting vehicles. If you decide to stay, you need to become secretive and silent. That's just the way it is.

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